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  • It says "...Of Americans", so the optimist in me says "25% of people didn't know about or answer the poll."

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  • Don't have time for too much complex thought right now but just wanted to say THANK YOU.

    I feel like pop culture has really fed into this nonsense, where every scene between anybody is written/filmed as "ship-bait".

    This idea people can't be friends without underlying sexual tension feels a lot like "you can't just enjoy something without putting it online and side-hustling it." And it sucks.

    It feels like another extension of how everyone sees every single human interaction as transactional anymore.

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  • Hah, sorry, I didn't mean it to be depressing. True, I was kinda venting a painful experience but . . .my sincere hope is that someone might learn from my mistakes, and finally stop putting off spending time with people who matter to them.

    There will always be excuses to put it off til "next time", "one day", "eventually...", but we don't have forever to get over them, and we need our fellows more than we ever have.

    And yeah, the terminally-online are a frightening combination of "ferociously bitter" and "obsessed with being 'a part of something'", that they actually rejoice in the suffering of others as if oppression is some kind of football game.

    I want no part of whatever someone like that is selling.

  • Wow. I dropped it too early then.

    I kinda rolled my eyes and was like "Is EVERY Viking story just an endless circle of killing fathers killing sons killing fathers again?"

    Maybe I should give it another chance...

  • Yeah I'm kinda terrified to watch that one, not gonna lie. I get an emotional overreaction just looking at the cover...

  • It's definitely a tight rope. I was a bit of a "gun nut" as a teen. Mostly by way of fiction and research.

    But the difference, and why I'm probably alive and with all my fingers today, is my dad constantly and heavily emphasized safety alongside exposure in controlled environments. They were something to fear and respect, but not be afraid of.

    I worry about this as a soon to be father myself. We might be in a situation where arms become necessary, God forbid.

    An interest can be healthy, but we definitely need to put the ridiculous carelessness and violence-porn power fantasies into the "outrageous stupid entertainment in moderation" box, rather than glorifying it as a core part of our culture.

  • I still feel really curious about getting around to that one.

    The most unsettling thing is working at my local library, and that movie's been out for a long time now, and I see it circulating CONSTANTLY.

    That speaks volumes about what's on people's minds, I think...

  • "Would you like to play a game?"

  • I'm so scared to play that game. I also am very much not willing to engage in real warfare, so, I guess it'd be preaching to the choir... But yeah...

  • Dice. Definitely dice.

  • And also highly fatty meats. It's usually just butter. So much fucking butter.

    Anthropology: The study of mankind's quest for readily available fat.

  • LOL I learned so much from this, thank you.

    And also: Fume and dust extraction is no joke!!

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  • This. Profoundly this.

    I wish people would just realize this and strive to lift each other up instead of trying to one-up each other in the pity-demographic olympics.

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  • One of the greatest feelings is having been helpful to those we care about. It's sad that some people will abuse that to no end, and you didn't deserve that in the slightest.

    I hope you're doing better these days. <3

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  • I met a fellow in my neighborhood by happenstance. We happened to be crazy similar. He was really cool.

    I felt bad not really getting around to checking in on him more often. I was shy and afraid of what I didn't know, or making a fool of myself. But damnit he was a really cool guy...

    Occasionally I'd catch him with his garage door open and we'd have a chat. (You gotta understand, nobody interacts in this neighborhood.) We met because I was out running in the rain like a crazy guy (we rarely get rain lol) and HE decided to introduce himself to me as I ran by his house LOL.

    So anyway...I saw he hadn't responded to my Merry Christmas text.

    ...And just a week ago or so I got a text from his wife that he had passed away from an aneurysm 4 months prior.

    When I brought her flowers for him, she told me he had said that he thought. . .that I was very cool. . .

    Why I'm sharing this:

    I know it's awkward sometimes trying to make new friends as an adult, but also it's foolish to simply assume tomorrow is guaranteed. Do that hangout. Plan the game night. Talk about random stuff in the backyard. Whatever.

    You will never regret more time spent in fellowship and good company.

    I would have been a really good friend to him if I just reached out more...

    The loneliness epidemic is absolutely real, and this isolating society is killing us all by design and it breaks my heart.

    That is all.

  • But also capitalism will gladly sell you the rope with which to hang it by. . .

  • The images speak for themselves, but every boot-sniffing, spineless suburbanite who conflates what ICE is doing with "law enforcement" and "protection" from "criminals" should take a good hard look at exactly where that leads. Every time.

    It's this right here. Uniformed thugs with rifles getting rid of State-declared "undesirables."

    "But they wouldn't come after me." They tell themselves, as that old quote goes.

    The cops are doing this too, to the surprise of nobody. I guess terrorism isn't against the law anymore, as long as you've got a uniform and an acronym, apparently.

    The fact anybody's okay with ANYBODY being treated like this on their own soil is a mirror into the rotten depravity that's taken root in their souls.

  • They're totally sleeping on

    "We're gonna build up Walz, and make Trump/ICE pay for it!"