It’s whatever as long as the women aren’t too young. Like I’ve seen sleazy stuff in SEA and old dudes dating 18-early 20s year olds is fucked up. I don’t care if it’s legal and consented to. Their brains aren’t even fully developed at that age.
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MelonYellow@lemmy.cato
Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world•People who have been to psych wards before, how was it?English
25·6 months agoAssuming this is for commitment to a locked facility:
Bring some clothes without strings, shoes (again, no strings allowed so you might want to consider slides or slippers), no belts, no scarves. I recommend slides since they double as shower shoes. Valuables, electronics, anything considered a hazard to have on the unit will be confiscated. Includes dangly jewelry, large rings. And in general, consider that there are many patients up and about, some very sick and confused - don’t bring anything you’d be devastated if it got stolen or damaged. Don’t bring food/drinks, cigarettes, lighters, drugs -foodstuffs bc they can’t be verified or stored for hygienic reasons.
No smoking, but they’ll have nicorette gums or patches.
Small amounts of toiletries brought from home may be allowed at their discretion.
You might be allowed to use your smartphone for a short time under supervision (no smartphones for privacy reasons). There should be shared computer, phone, headphones use.
Since you won’t have your phone, DO have important phone numbers written on a piece of paper if you don’t have them memorized.
Expect a non-invasive skin check with a nurse during intake.
SIGN the information release form for family and friends you want involved in your care. Without your permission, they will be turned away.
Ask when the visiting hours are. You can have people bring you food and sometimes order food delivery (check with the staff).
If another patient is bothering you, maybe you’ve got a problematic roommate -let a staff know. They can maybe find a different arrangement.
Shower early or late. Higher chance of having the shared bathroom to yourself.
Stay on the normal sleep schedule and don’t stay up too late. First of all, they track how you’re sleeping. Second, it really sucks to sleep through your daily check-in with the psychiatrist (who basically controls how long you’re staying).
Staff are required to do frequent 24hr safety rounds on everyone, so this means at night too.
There should be recreational time outside to get some fresh air. Some group activities that are optional but encouraged to attend.
But yes, the days are boring! These places are geared for medications and getting you out of a crisis situation - not so much therapy. Recommend bringing reading/writing materials. Daily journaling is a nice idea. Remember no spiral bound because the spirals are sharp.
I gotchu
MelonYellow@lemmy.cato
Lemmy Shitpost@lemmy.world•Can't figure it out.d Been staring at this picture for an hour and have no idea what it meansEnglish
11·7 months agoI could understand the individual components but all together like that, idk
Edit: oh oops. I thought that light gray pillow peeking out was some kind of neck roll for neck support. Lol. This must be for shark week sex.
MelonYellow@lemmy.cato
Asklemmy@lemmy.ml•How can I explain that my last workplace was in a cult without seeming unprofessional?English
13·7 months agoMaybe for small time employers, but I feel like big companies don’t care because there’s too many applicants. As in, between two equal candidates, they’ll take the one that sounds “unproblematic.”
MelonYellow@lemmy.cato
World News@lemmy.world•Three French teens drown in freak car crash in swimming poolEnglish
3·7 months agoWell those kids were uniquely screwed. But I figure in a sinking car scenario, the best bet is to immediately roll down the windows. Even better to have manual windows so there’s no risk of automatic windows failing. I have that drilled into my brain, for let’s say I’m driving a car rental and by some freak accident fall off a cliff edge. Fuck waiting for the pressure to equalize, by then who knows how deep I’d be and I don’t trust how long I could hold my breath for.
Roll. Down. The. Windows!
MelonYellow@lemmy.cato
Asklemmy@lemmy.ml•What do you want to know after you die?English
5·7 months agoWell I’d definitely want to know how the universe was formed.
MelonYellow@lemmy.cato
Lemmy Shitpost@lemmy.world•Winding down my day off the right wayEnglish
5·7 months agoMe too. The grease! Those poor keys!
The weird trippy video really elevates the song
MelonYellow@lemmy.cato
World News@lemmy.world•Brazil approves world’s first single-dose dengue vaccineEnglish
3·7 months agoIt’s finally coming!!
MelonYellow@lemmy.cato
Not The Onion@lemmy.world•OpenAI says dead teen violated TOS when he used ChatGPT to plan suicideEnglish
8·7 months agoIf they cared, it should’ve been escalated to the authorities and investigated for mental health. It’s not just a curious question if he was searching it hundreds of times. If he was actively planning suicide, where I’m from that’s grounds for an involuntary psych hold.
I love the side eye!
MelonYellow@lemmy.cato
science@lemmy.world•Human brains have 5 distinct 'epochs' in a lifetime, study findsEnglish
7·7 months agoReading this wishing I did everything I could to learn and experience new things before the age of 32. I guess I’m in the plateau phase, but it was not until now that I could afford these priorities and not just focusing on work and survival. Oh well, c’est la vie. I’ll certainly keep trying.😁
MelonYellow@lemmy.cato
World News@lemmy.world•New Zealand says it’s going to eradicate feral catsEnglish
343·7 months agoFeral cats cause the ultimate destruction to local wildlife. They are so common, one of the worst invasive species. And New Zealand’s an island with precious endemic wildlife not found anywhere else in the world. So yeah - it’s about time! Bravo NZ for doing the right thing.
Edit: They need to do this in Hawaii too!
MelonYellow@lemmy.cato
Cooking @lemmy.world•Ideas for very simple improvements to instant noodles?English
10·7 months agoI feel a bit guilty eating instant noodles too, so I usually eat them whenever I happen to have leafy greens in the fridge to make it more balanced.
If you’re interested, there are lots to choose from at your local Asian grocery store (here’s a good list). Many varieties of cabbage, bok choy, spinach, mustard greens, etc. that go well in soups and hotpots. Or blanch and eat them on the side (when lazy, I just season with soy sauce, or save a bit of the hot water and mix in some chicken bouillon).Other than that, I like adding kimchi.
For protein, yeah I just throw in an egg.
Sometimes I add mustard if I want some acidity in the broth. My dad turned me on to this. It works surprisingly well lol I think it’s more interesting than vinegar.
MelonYellow@lemmy.cato
Superbowl@lemmy.world•Closed - 2025 Owl of the Year Qualifier - Group AEnglish
6·7 months agoGroup B was pretty easy. This one’s more difficult to pick!
MelonYellow@lemmy.cato
News@lemmy.world•Zohran Mamdani says he still believes Trump is a 'fascist' and 'despot' after White House meetingEnglish
18·7 months agoI think Trump is simple and Mamdani’s just a hip down-to-earth likable dude lol



















An alternate reality history of America with Larry David seemingly playing himself. This looks fucking amazing!!!