This doesn't answer your question, but if you have an idea of what you want, or who you want to be, do those things. I'm closer to living the life I want to live because I asked myself "who do I want to be? And what does that person do?" and then I worked on doing those things. I have a ways to go, but I'm who I want to be.
I made it a personal rule that if I have a $5, it goes to whoever asks. I don't seek people out, but if it's asked, and I have that five dollar bill with me, it's theirs.
https://weaponfreefunds.org/ allows you to search for mutual funds and efts and trade then based on what they invest in (not just weapons, but fossil fuels, etc)
Don't count him out yet. Change is slow. I know we're used to hearing about revolutions in the aftermath, with the whole complete story. We're living one now, and it'll go slowly at first.
Good Hangs is Amy Poehler's podcast and it is goooood