The oxygen requirements only come into play when you fly depressurized. The reason that passengers aren’t on oxygen when you are flying pressurized at 30,000 feet (probably 5-7,000 ft pressure altitude inside the plane) is that the air they are pressurizing (thin, high altitude air) is still the same ratio of nitrogen/oxygen/CO2 even though there are smaller amounts of each.
The FAAs requirement of people being on supplemental oxygen only matters in non-pressurized flight, like small Cessnas and pressurized aircraft experience a depressurization emergency.
Yes, if the missile is coming from the same aircraft that is guiding it, it will follow a similar path to the line the laser (and camera) is looking. The missile can still be going near the speed of sound and appear motionless in the camera because all of its speed is directly away from the POV of the camera