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  • Aww you beat me to it

  • Thanks mate haha glad my veteran underage drinking shenanigans were good for something other than misspent youth. Hope OP saw it before they decided that another drink will probably be fine. 🥳🥴🤢🤮😪

  • It's really easy to feel like so far, everything has been feeling great and you're not even really that drunk yet so why not have another drink? It's also easy, each time you have a drink to be less good at deciding if having another one is a good idea until you're quite suddenly really quite drunk and now you can't do anything about it and also the effect continues so my best advice is, if it's feeling 'pretty great, I could take more', that's the perfect time to stop because you've probably got away with the buzz you wanted but not all the consequences of getting way drunker than you meant to.

  • I guess they could have been trying to dumb it down to make it easier for the customer to understand.

  • I think the problem op had with this situation and boss' approach was that it definitely had shades of admonishment, or at least potentially so, hence wanting to know op's the thought process. I don't manage people professionally and never have so I'm not speaking from knowledge of best practice, but I do know that in general this isn't going to be conducive to good outcomes. Necessary or otherwise, if admonishment or at least finding of fault with the behaviour of the person is on the cards doing so publicly is embarrassing and unlikely to foster the goodwill required for that person to think or behave differently since it moves the whole situation out of the framing of learning a lesson about how to do your job in future and in to something adversarial, with the boss now a malign influence to be resented or feared or both and the humiliation in front of peers now also means that person is more likely to feel isolated from them too with their peers are now to be viewed with apprehension as well as the boss. It's hard to work well and to avoid making mistakes with such factors at play. One such occasion alone, probably not, but if it's something boss wants to do a lot as a general management strategy, it's hard to see that going well for anyone involved.

  • I've always felt KFC is just rated. Obviously the ads by KFC for KFC will claim it to be the best food ever invented but in terms of how people seem to perceive it and how I perceive it, the experience tastes and feels like what it is. It's mostly enjoyable, fatty salty meat and it's deep fried which is kinda the fast food signature taste and texture. It's got a lot going for it, in the way that fried chicken generally as a food does, but it's also extremely poor quality fried chicken and rarely very fresh but that all balances out to something that pretty much works for what you want out of it and it doesn't seem to me like anyone expects much more of it.

  • Yeh I've alwahs appreciated how these loyalty cards and memberships etcetera don't insist of verifying or anything. Most just want an email so I just use a generator or make one up on the spot. It's good too because they often have cheap deals for signing up today.

  • Yeh seems like even a plumber could probably handle it

  • Are people calling desktop backgrounds screensavers now?

  • If this is real... I really don't see how this guy thought this quip would work out. Even without the funny Mum joke, they could have just responded with any name.

    They respond "Daisy" what's he going say now? How's he going to disprove that?

  • In modern NLEs you, don't need to a broadcast safe filter before mastering unless it's some really bizarre circumstance, for basically any normal broadcast master, the very process of encoding the file, essentially IS the broadcast safe filter and adding one on in the NLE just mucks up the grade.

  • It sounds a lot like they took something their psychologist said, in context, misremembered the exact wording and intended meaning, selectively reconstructed it, disregarded the original context and then applied it universally to all people in all situations instead of specifically for her in her particular circumstances as part of a sentence deeply embedded in a lot of conversation that took place before and after to try and help her understand why people act certain ways.

  • I'd probably pick quotes that don't specifically mention "ruling class" directly, kinda gives the game away.

  • Hmm yeh that's definitely a pressure point issue there. I guess I do self-censor somewhat in that I know the type of reception that can be expected on that topic if not following the orthodoxy so unless I'm prepared to vigorously defend something I have to say on it, then I generally don't say much on it, wouldn't want to go in half-cocked or try to persuade any one of anything unless I was pretty sure it was a new insightful take that might be able to ride above the fray and bridge some fundamental disagreements.

    From my perspective, it's difficult to say how your comments exactly contravene this rule 1 as stated directly. But then you did go ahead and suggest Russia should be wiped off the map as part of your defence of why it isn't reasonable to use corruption as a pretext to wipe another country off the map. I think suggesting that as a fait acompli conclusion and the only option was bound to raise a few eyebrows and while it doesn't neatly explicitly fit the categories mentioned in rule 1, I guess one could say that that suggestion dances around a mixture of 3 of them. Maybe someone was trying to shoehorn the statement in to one of the existing rules as pretext.

  • Flubber 1997 Not because it was such a memorably great trailer, but just because it was so misleading. I don't want to watch that shitty movie all over again just to verify my claims but what I recall was, there were entire scenes or shots in the trailer that weren't in the movie at all, and they were kind of the best bits. I definitely expected a lot more crazy hijinks and time spent in the flying car with sentient mischievous green goo then what I remember ending up with. The whole flubber material having some will of its own too I seem to recall was a much less prominent aspect of the movie than was implied, it seemed to be just goo most of the time. So much screen time was spent worrying about the Professor's marriage and conflict with the University faculty, which was so boring for a kid especially when they marketed it so heavily and I was given to expect so different. Don't know if I'd have liked the 60's version better, from what I read and see in the trailer it does look like pretty much the same movie so likely suffered the same issues.

  • I'm sure I remembered it being easier, but basically if you access the Lemmy instance in question via a browser rather than an app (might work on apps too but not mine), there's a modlog link at the bottom of the page which shows you the mod activity generally, and then on that page you can filter by user and type the name of the user who's modlog you'd like to see.

  • When it comes up, which isn't too often, I find I'm not really the model archetypal .ml user in outlook and have run afoul of a few people that took exception to that there, but that came in the form of angry comments about the thing I said and either the literal meaning of it or sometimes what they took it to mean, and for a forum that seems entirely appropriate. I was briefly banned from one of the communities there once too because I was accused of being a bot. Funnily enough I actually didn't notice that and it had been overturned by the time found out there was a modlog and figured this out.

    It would be hard for me to know obviously, but based on this experience, it doesn't seem to me that they're particularly ban-happy, particularly not instance wide. Kind of a bummer that happened to you. I'm fairly happy basing my account there and speaking my mind when I see fit. I do pick up the prevailing winds and can accurately presume what would and wouldn't be taken well, but I don't generally feel a need to self-censor or worry about bans.

  • If one really dug through my history before this comment and probably in to the future when I've long forgotten about it you'd probably find examples of me not practicing what I'm about to preach but, to an extent no one really is a loser because the term is subjective and meaningless in any practical sense. People might do "loser" things sometimes or even constantly, but still have capacity for change or posess redeeming factors that make them worth time and energy to at least someone. The question is whether they're worth your time and energy, and whether you have reason to want them to redeem themselves in your eyes.

    If your father had been a much nicer spoken man, and also stayed with your mother, but still had the terrible money management and bad financial situation would you still feel inclined to call him a loser? Someone with no attachment to him and whose personal criteria for casting someone in to that bucket centres around material wealth might, but his own children maybe less so. As it happens he has been bad with money, has made a lot of decisions you disapprove of and persists in interacting with you in a reprehensible manner so it's entirely understandable why you might not like him very much or feel much reason to indulge him or invest in a relationship with him. To me that's enough, his "loserdom" status is immaterial, in fact it's a distraction, because if you ever DID change your mind and wanted to attempt to repair the relationship, such value judgements might be hard to cast aside once they're allowed to calcify and such a change of mind won't be about his worth based on some extrinsic, arbitrary label but instead about what he is and continues to be to you.

  • DeGoogle Yourself @lemmy.ml

    Thinking of replacing my gen1 Chromecast

  • Open Source @lemmy.ml

    I'd like to start using 'digital wallets' like Pass Android or fpass but things like tickets or membership cards only provide links to 'add to google wallet'

  • DeGoogle Yourself @lemmy.ml

    I have DDG set as my default search but I miss effective business searches

  • Browsers @lemmy.ml

  • Browsers @lemmy.ml

    Fennec on f-droid has anti-features, it connects to mozilla services that can track users. Does it HAVE to do that? Should I use it if my trust in firefox is eroding?

  • Gaming @lemmy.ml

    In SSBM on dolphin emulator, I can't seem to 'reel in' a grapple recovery with Samus

  • Gaming @lemmy.ml

    For some reason when I hear the Super Mario Bros 2 Overworld theme, in my head I start hearing the lyrics to the Fresh Prince of Bel Air over the top of it.

  • Apple @lemmy.ml

    Are there any free tools that allow me to create NTFS partitions available for MacOS?

  • Gaming @lemmy.ml

    Is the OSx version of Disco Elysium on GOG Native to Apple Silicon?

  • Gaming @lemmy.ml

    Is Assassin's creed shadows going to be some free to play bullshit or will I be able to just buy it?

  • Apple @lemmy.ml

    How can I create an automator or shortcut to take selected image files and use exiftool to strip them of their metadata?

  • Apple @lemmy.ml

    If I buy a preowned Sonnet echo TB2 PCIe expansion chassis and use a TB2 to USB-C connector adaptor would it still work on an M2 mac?

  • No Stupid Questions @lemmy.ml

    I have accepted a job starting late this year, but may be about to receive another offer much sooner. I definitely want to do the later one, how bad would it be to accept the first then leave?

  • Apple @lemmy.ml

    How do you disable focus/do not disturb mode?

  • Firefox @lemmy.ml

    Why does the FX_cast extension work on some youtube videos but not others?

  • uBlockOrigin @lemmy.ml

    Why do all my (desktop) casted youtube videos cast low quality?

  • uBlockOrigin @lemmy.ml

    Did ublock origin used to work with chromecasted youtube videos?

  • Apple @lemmy.ml

    Can you prevent the lockout screen from occurring during display sleep when streaming to chromecast?

  • Asklemmy @lemmy.ml

    why do hangover symptoms come on in waves

  • /c/cybersecurity - Cybersecurity News & Discussion @lemmy.ml

    to what extent does obscurity mitigate risk?