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  • That's a possibility, too bad the article is so crappy and devoid of actual info

  • Emotionally abusive parents is what is described

    How is a quieter than usual Dad an abusive parent? it is an absolute exaggeration.

    Let me explain: a ranging alcoholic, violent father, would trigger all emotional alerts on a kid. As soon as said father arrives home, the kid would be on edge.

    So, in a post like this, they basically skipped over the entire context of the raging alcoholism... instead they said it's a red flag when parents arrive and open the door.

    I understand the context is supposed to be implied; but the post is just very poorly written. It would be like me saying "you learn quickly to protect your face from a bite as soon as a dog barks"... dogs bark all the time, very few would eat people's faces. In this example, a simple slam of a cabinet or a quieter then usual dad could mean 100000 benign things. OP should have been clear that this was already an abusive environment or at least select better examples of "alerting" behaviour

  • The implicit presumption is that if someone is quietly fuming now, they’ll become physically violent later....

    That is a gigantic leap... 100% of the population would have many healthy reasons for being quieter than they normally are and the vast majority do not blow up in a violent rage afterwards.

    This is exactly my issue with this post.

    It’s very hard to discuss a real historical situations when you’re working from a superficial description or hypothetical implication.

    Once again, not the point. We can talk hypotheticals all you want but if we are to make a point, it would be best to make a clear one

    A friend of mine just had his father-in-law pass away...

    Exactly... I don't think it's fair to paint these parents as abusive. Moreover, I do not think there is anything wrong (in this scenario) with kids noticing and trying to help. But this post would paint them as abusive and the child's natural empathy as a toxic defense mechanism

    I think even that is too specific...

    Indeed it was too specific, but so was the post... a cabinet slam and/or a father being quiet is a far cry from symptoms of an abusive household

  • That's my point. They insinuate an abusive environment but then lay out a perfectly normal one.

    It's like implying anyone who has a zip of beer is a ranging violent alcoholic

  • I'll call it what it is actually called: "Industrial Automation"... and I am not arguing it's a bad thing, I am just arguing against peddling AI which is complete bullshit

  • Where is the abuse or neglect of a father being quiet during one dinner?

    Again, I do think I know where this is coming from... but what is written in the post is NOT that.

    This post is like describing a baseball butt slap as sexual abuse... yes, there is such a thing as sexual abuse but a friendly butt slap in baseball is basically in the baseball manual

  • yes, this is why I said "I see where this is coming from" but I still find the framing completely irresponsible

    I participate heavily in pretty much every aspect of my house (I am just more of a "high energy" person compared with my wife) Sometimes, I feel down and do get quiet. If my kids (grown already) noticed and tried to cheer me up, I would take that as an incredible sign of love and affection as it is a sign of emotional maturity from them as well as a healthy display of empathy.

    What is described in this post, seems to me a normal household where humans, not robots, live.

    Completely different story about parents whose mood swings go from loving to beaters, for example... but again, the wording of the post frames very normal human behaviour as abusive

  • Ok, still not sure I get you... hurt through empathy is still a good thing (kind of like pain due to exercise)

  • Yes, I read the article (which was fairly shitty on details).

    Manual labour replaced by production lines have fuck all to do with AI. Again, if you are measuring x-many variables and adjusting on a predictable pattern, that is just good old logic and algorithms used since programming was a thing.

  • AI-Driven plant for mineral refining?... this is like when they put "blockchain" on everything to make sure it caught some hype

    At the Saskatchewan facility, much of the process will instead be controlled by an AI-based operating system.

    So Windose? that is basically Microslop today

    The system continuously analyses thousands of data points and adjusts the process in real time.

    Literally something done today without AI... what's the AI component here?. This process seems to be ENTIRELY deterministic, I can't see what the benefit of "AI" here... except the AI hype thingy

  • Empathy is a double edged sword

    No it isn't. I can't think of a drawback to empathy that is worse than anything caused by lack of empathy. Specially empathy towards loved ones

  • I see where this is coming from but to expect parents will keep an even mood, every day, no matter what, is just ridiculous.

    Of course it is important kids know it is not their responsibility but this meme/tweet/post makes it look like a worried parent that speaks less than usual during dinner is basically being emotionally abusive

  • ah, the land of the free

  • Say hello to the newest Microslop Executive VP!

  • If there was ever hope that Microslop would correct its ways, this is proof that there is no reason to hope

  • Removed

    Here we go again

    Jump
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  • <shivers>

  • And there you have it folks... War is Peace... as decreed by Jebus himself

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