

Awareness not cynicism, yes. Very important for self growth.
The head in the clouds of over optimism and the head in the mud of cynicism are two extremes that’ll both extra super duper fuck you over.
Reality has both good and bad things.
Most people hear that you have to learn to pull your head out of the clouds, but honestly the cynics need to be beat up more about their cynicism because that attitude ALSO lays the foundation for shitty times.
If you go into things having decided they’ll suck beforehand, you contributed to that outcome by not creating, seeing, or seeking better things.
And it takes time and work to kill off the parasite of cynicism if it’s already wrapped around your soul. But it’s hard work that must be done.






I was going to say something about head/eye coordination…but the snake I used to have could strike at a dead rodent and miss.
So you have a good point.