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Icaria

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  • Dating app Bumble will no longer require women to make the first move | CNN Business

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  • Finding a romantic partner should come naturally from making friends. Friend may introduce you to a romantic partner, or they could become one.

    That's a lovely idea, unfortunately a lot of us are growing old waiting for this bullshit.

  • Dating app Bumble will no longer require women to make the first move | CNN Business

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  • I don't agree with everything the guy above you said, but my circumstances are very similar to his.

    I have friends, but they don't know anyone they can introduce me to.

    Sports are off the table due to both health problems and a lack of interest (do you really want group activities to be full of disinterested guys just there to chat up chicks?), never mind that they're all heavily male-dominated around here.

    Local councils put on events, but they are either for children, for mothers, or for seniors.

    Everything has been turned into a product to be sold to you, almost every event costs money, and when you do pony up the events are somewhere between borderline scams and actual scams.

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    This is a recurring issue with this subject. Someone offers advice, someone points out why that advice isn't very applicable, and the first person makes no attempt to "adapt and overcome" themselves and either a) offer better advice, or b) admit that they don't have any better suggestions.

  • Dating app Bumble will no longer require women to make the first move | CNN Business

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  • Calling it a thirst trap is too innocent. These dating app companies are scum-sucking vampires designed to make most people feel lonely and desperate enough to give them money in perpetuity. People just handed one of the most important and intimate aspects of their lives over to US tech bros, pressured everyone else to do the same, and two whole generations are not just having less sex than their parents, but half of them have never had a long-term relationship as they're approaching 30.

  • I feel old

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  • Rap got popular in the 80's, like NWA and Run DMC, right as GenXers were entering their formative years. Really not hard to figure out before posting pointless replies.

  • Recognize the mother of Wifi

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  • This post is inaccurate. Neither WiFi nor GPS use FHSS, nor is Lamarr anything close to singularly credited with FHSS' invention (the earliest patent is credited to Nikola Tesla). This also implies that the Allies used her parent - they did not.

    Also Richard Easton is the son of the man who invented GPS and had every right to be skeptical of this claim, and it looks like Internet dipshts have bullied him into deleting his twitter account over this.

  • I feel old

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  • The whole trend is nothing new. Millennials and some GenXers were stealing all their slang from American rappers when they were young, too.

  • Trans youth will no longer be prescribed puberty blockers, NHS England says

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  • Do yourself a favour and don't read the possible side effects on the back of the box of paracetamol you bought from the supermarket.

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  • You search for one thing and it starts showing recommendations.

    I fail to see how this is a bad thing. Youtube's old default homepage would show scam and content mill recommendations.

  • Preparing a megathread about android FOSS apps - Part Four (Keyboards, Notes, Maps and Music Players)

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  • Had a look at it, seems to lack dedicated modifier and cursor keys. Looking specifically for a PC-style keyboard.

  • Preparing a megathread about android FOSS apps - Part Four (Keyboards, Notes, Maps and Music Players)

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  • Does anyone know of an alternative to Hacker's Keyboard? It hasn't been updated for about 5 years and I'm worried it will stop working on newer versions of Android.

  • New Linux user here. Is this really how I'm supposed to install apps on Linux?

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  • I mean I agree that this is a new user nightmare, but we've been conditioning people for 30 years to download and run random .EXE files as admin too.

  • China Is Pressing Women to Have More Babies. Many Are Saying No.

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  • I hope they continue to resist and eventually cause a larger change for the better across the region.

    Except that's not what's happening if you read the article, on either count.

    Women aren't resisting childbirth as an act of rebellion or as an exercise of their rights, there's just too many competing pressures in their lives to table in having kids. Coupled with declining rates of attachment and a distraction-based economy, this isn't a 'win' for anyone.

    And population decline is a crisis we don't know how to deal with. Old people have little economic output, but use up a lot of resources. It means the kids who are still born end up carrying a huge burden paying for and caring for older generations, they end up tax serfs in an aged care-based economy, and if older generations aren't cared for you end up with human atrocities on a massive scale.

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    Most of these comments are problematic. You don't have to have children, but for most people it has been a pretty consistent and natural inclination. Now a whole generation are convincing themselves they don't want children when they really just can't, and rather than holding those responsible to account and improving all our circumstances, they're treating it as some personal victory.

  • A lot of societies problems would be solved if they taught about forming healthy relationships in school.

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  • This isn't just an issue in terms of romantic relationships, or gender-specific.

    We used to all be exposed to the same media and had common points of reference and interest. It was called water cooler discussion. Unless you're into sports, this doesn't really exist any more.

    We used to share a more common set of customs. Schools used to have etiquette/finishing classes. Was a lot of it ultimately arbitrary and made up? Of course, but we were all taught the same things, and they became a common language. You knew to take off your hat/glasses when talking to me to show a level of courtesy and respect, and I knew you were showing respect when you did that. This also worked in terms of things like knowing when to adopt a formal tone with others... many people don't have a formal tone any more, let alone know how to use it.

    Everyday life thrust us into more social interaction, too. You used to have to go to stores, talk to people. Even public transport and public spaces used to be a social experience before everyone buried themselves in their mobile phones and headphones. Now the majority of people left trying to interact with you in public are weirdos or trying to sell you something, so people assume anyone approaching you in public is a weirdo or trying to sell you something, suddenly it is taboo to even try to strike up a conversation with a stranger.

    And modern outlets like social media encourage some of our worst tendencies. Everything escalates into outrage, tribal warfare, makes us really bad at self-moderation and letting things go.

    The-way-things-were was never ideal for a minority of people, but the way things are is ideal for no one. I strongly believe even the innovations that are supposed to help a lot of minorities are hurting them to a degree, too. I fit into a couple of those minority categories myself, and have to force myself to go outside, to use manned checkouts, to put away my phone when outside, as while the alternatives may be easier in the short-term, in the long-term they are making me both physically and mentally less-resiliant.

  • What is your "inexpensive" hobby that turned out to be expensive/ you gradually invested lots of money into?

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  • I needed a new saucepan.

    I've now replaced half my kitchen.

  • Reddit is a shithole

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  • Speaking of people who start shit for no reason, invent grievances, etc...

    Scroll up, the last guy tried your latest tactic already. Insults and comebacks =/= arguments.

  • Reddit is a shithole

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  • Siiiigh, would it help if I said penis? The last time this happened, it happened to be a woman.

    And it's pretty obvious when someone starts shit with people on the Internet for no reason, then posts their uglies all over the net, that they've got a pretty juvenile issue with attention-seeking behaviour in general.

  • Reddit is a shithole

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  • More than once I had someone being an arse to me on reddit, I took a gander at their profile to see what kind of fucko I was dealing with... and it was full of their nudes.

    One time it was someone who lived in the same town as me.

    Yeah... your insults and comebacks don't hit quite as hard now that I know you're desperate for people to see your vagina.

  • lemmy.world blocked the largest piracy community in all of lemmy

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  • I don't understand, what data from other instances is cached, exactly?

    And usenet has existed since before the Internet itself, has been used for piracy almost as long, and yet I don't see many concerns there.