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  • Yes! Throughout my life I've had some very special relationships with wildlife. It started when I was quite young and had a red bellied brown snake that always hung out in the same place. They were incredibly docile, and would let me carry them around in my hands for hours as I explored outside. This went on for a couple of years.

    Later, I got to play foster to baby raccoons when my grandfather would find them orphaned on the farm. They were so much fun, and it was always bittersweet when it was time for them to be released.

    In 2016 an injured squirrel showed up on my porch. I tried luring him into a carrier to get him to the local wildlife rehabilitation center, but he was too clever. I wound up nursing him back to health myself as best I could. Any time I'd go outside he'd climb all over me and was so friendly. I think about him a lot, and that experience was very special to me.

    After that, I moved up to the UP and lived in a national forest. A herd of deer became like outside pets, and they'd come onto the porch and stare in through the glass door when they wanted to be fed. In the spring they'd leave their fans in my yard for daycare, and it was a delight to see them chilling in the yard with me during the day.

    The chickadees up there would get daringly close in the winter, so I decided to see if they'd eat out of my hand if I had high value treats. It worked a little too well, because they'd come and land on me when I got home from work or was outside for other reasons. I ended up winning over some cute little nuthatches, too, but they weren't as fearless as the chickadees and wouldn't bother with me unless I had food.

    I live in a good sized city now, so I don't have the same opportunities I did in other places I've lived. I miss it so much.

  • Drag makeup can also be effective!

  • Sorry to be a buzz kill, but that's the reason seeing cats playing with hair ties stresses me out. If cats don't vomit them up, they can become impacted in the intestines, or even tear them, and cause a life threatening emergency.

  • Minnesota is full of lakes. Cut an oversized ice fishing hole, and a lot of problems could sink away.

  • Silly string is highly flammable.

  • You're very welcome, and I hope it's helpful!

  • This! Yes, cats are obligate carnivores, but every one is an individual with unique physiological needs. Excess protein is passed out of the body in different ways. Diet modification could be helpful.

    To best help your vet, try to get the Typical Analysis of your cat's foods. This is different from the Guaranteed Analysis found on pet food packaging. Guaranteed Analyses offer nutrient values in minimums and maximums rather than the actual percentage of the nutrient found in the food. This is very important. A food may say 35% protein minimum in the GA, but that could be a way higher number in actuality. Since you feed wet food, I would recommend requesting these nutritional values on a dry matter basis rather than an as-is or as-fed (these mean the same thing) basis.

    Not all pet food manufacturers provide the Typical Analysis for their products on their website, as it's not legally required. If this is the case for your cat's food, please reach out to their customer service team to ask for this information. They should have no problem providing it for you. If they do, I'd seriously recommend switching foods.

    I've worked in veterinary medicine and as a nutritional product specialist for a pet food manufacturer. If I can help, please feel free to message me. I hope you're able to figure this out for your kitty!

  • Infecting more people in and of itself makes a flu virus more dangerous. Even if, statistically, it doesn't have a higher fatality rate, if the virus is able to more easily infect people then more will end up dead or hospitalized.

  • I'm sorry you're being downvoted. I agree with you. This is our country, and it's been established that our government isn't acting to protect it. Ultimately, if we want to keep it, we need to be ready and willing to make sacrifices for the betterment of the future. I don't blame people for balking at the immense personal costs this could bring, but what's the alternative?

    No one is coming to save us. We are facing a lot of frightening choices right now, but this means it's the time for courage.

  • Thank you so much for the recommendations! My partner recently built me a gaming PC, and he'd be really happy for me to spend more time on it. I'll definitely check those out!

  • A good time!

  • Spiritfarer. I was so sad when it ended.

  • Yes! Our local geology clubs offer field trips for members, including mineral and fossil digs!

  • Absolutely. I'd also like to add that people who insist on a certain breed can usually find a great breed-specific rescue to work with. I also see lots of breeds you wouldn't expect pop up in shelters and all breed rescues. I wasn't expecting to get a "purebred" dog myself, but a German shepherd was transported to the shelter I was working at, and we fell in love. It usually requires more work than buying a dog, but the rewards for yourself, your community, and that dog's life make it all well worth it.

  • I am so sorry you've lost your beautiful boy at such a young age. Saying goodbye to our beloved pets is always awful, but you both were tragically robbed of many years of memories. I can't imagine how difficult this must be for you and your family. I wish you all peace and healing as you grieve.

    After you've had some time to process, I would recommend reaching out to the breeder with the veterinary records. At the bare minimum they should know what health concerns are in their lines, and it may help another family avoid what you're going through. Cancer is very common in Goldens, but even moreso for English creams and other newer color variants. Best case scenario the breeder will have their dams and sires undergo genetic testing and stop breeding dogs with health concerns, but if not, they deserve to be dragged for knowingly breeding and placing dogs who are more likely to live short, painful lives.

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  • That's part of having a cat.

  • This isn't going to be a popular answer, but the only meats I don't feel guilty about eating are those that come from my family's farms, their, neighbors farms, or the wild game my family hunts. Commercial, large scale agriculture is damaging in many ways, but for most people who choose to eat meat it's very difficult to avoid. We need to advocate for a more localized food supply for so many reasons.

  • Oh my, I think you need to talk to someone. If I suggest therapy, should I die twice?

  • I never said he couldn't express his pain. I said, regardless of genders, this way of expressing it is simply rude and not a good way to communicate in any kind of relationship. When someone brings up something that is bothering them, and your immediate response is "yeah, but me", you're being a jerk. Since this seems to be escaping you, this doesn't mean the other person isn't allowed to talk about their feelings. They simply need to be an adult and do it at a more appropriate time or in a more appropriate way. Conversations like this aren't a battle to be won, they are a tool used to solve a problem or simply vent frustration.

    You seem to be looking at this in a very black and white way. Therapy can help with that. It's not a fun way to go through life.