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Cake day: 2023年10月14日

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  • It sounds like you’re trying very hard and she’s not meeting you halfway. You can try to educate her more on the condition if she’s willing but doesn’t sound great. My partner does a lot to actively learn about my condition and adapt to it. And I do the same for her conditions.




  • I wonder if there is a fragment of a good idea in there. Maybe a dating app that like queues up men and doesn’t let the next one out of the queue until the active person gets matched to someone.

    Though that sounds pretty slow and not enough dopamine in using the app to keep people on it.

    Maybe not a single man, but some small amount so it is known that you can’t just screen for the 1% of dream guys. Like if you only get 5 swipes, maybe you won’t be as ready to dismiss everyone immediately.

    Whatever, I’m sure there are teams of psychologists working for all those companies that have all this crap dialed in for max profit and engagement.