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Djole2033

@ Djole2033 @lemmygrad.ml

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  • Bring back Kirbywithwhip1987 if you can, I am his friend, he's in terrible situation and I'm worried about his mental health [CW: mental health and violence]

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  • I've just read it, he never even mentioned gay people, he was talking about his LGBT phobic family members and how there is 2 genders/sexes, so how exactly did you come to conclusion that he himself homophobic?

  • Bring back Kirbywithwhip1987 if you can, I am his friend, he's in terrible situation and I'm worried about his mental health [CW: mental health and violence]

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  • Yes, Yellowstone, the supervolacno

  • Bring back Kirbywithwhip1987 if you can, I am his friend, he's in terrible situation and I'm worried about his mental health [CW: mental health and violence]

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  • Your point?

  • Bring back Kirbywithwhip1987 if you can, I am his friend, he's in terrible situation and I'm worried about his mental health [CW: mental health and violence]

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  • I know him since 2012, he never had anything against people of different sexual orientation, even though that wasn’t a big thing here and was looked down upon when we went to school together, he himself is an asexual, so I can certainly say that unlike his sister, he was never homophobic.

  • Bring back Kirbywithwhip1987 if you can, I am his friend, he's in terrible situation and I'm worried about his mental health [CW: mental health and violence]

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  • He never had anything against gay people, unlike most of his family, so he isn't.

  • Bring back Kirbywithwhip1987 if you can, I am his friend, he's in terrible situation and I'm worried about his mental health [CW: mental health and violence]

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  • Firstly, he didn't tell me anything about it beyond the fact that he was banned and he didn't mentioned it since because he most probably forgot about this website, don't blame me for his doings, I didn't know every detail about what he's doing on social media. The only reason I came here to ask for help, advice or someone to talk to him because I ran out of options after the past few months and am saddened to see my friend whom I know since 2012 be in this situation.

    He was never against towards people of different sexual orientation, even though that wasn't a big thing here and was looked down upon when we went to school together, he himself is an asexual. So far from what I've read in comments, it was a matter of gender or sex and not the sexual orientation per see. I'm not a biologist or a doctor so I can't say for sure, but since we're from Eastern Europe/Balkans, people don't care about this here at all, the consensus is that there's male and female and then a person is either attracted to one, both or no one.

    As for his sister, she's openly hostile to LGBT and despises gay women and trans people in particular, same thing with his mother and his step father is a Muslim so it's really a miracle that he isn't LGBT phobic.

  • Bring back Kirbywithwhip1987 if you can, I am his friend, he's in terrible situation and I'm worried about his mental health [CW: mental health and violence]

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  • The problem is that he doesn’t think he needs it in the first place.

  • Bring back Kirbywithwhip1987 if you can, I am his friend, he's in terrible situation and I'm worried about his mental health [CW: mental health and violence]

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  • He never did anything illegal, but is definitely prone to anger. I've suggested it because he doesn't have any community space left. The main thing is the fact that he doesn't think that he needs help in the first place, as I said, his family is the way it is so there's no way to do anything despite the fact that we're close in real life. I really don't know what to do at this point and that's why I asked for advice.

  • Bring back Kirbywithwhip1987 if you can, I am his friend, he's in terrible situation and I'm worried about his mental health [CW: mental health and violence]

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  • He didn’t mention anything about it, but his sister is extremely LGBT phobic so that was definitely influenced by her considering that he never had anything about LGBT folks in real life.

  • Bring back Kirbywithwhip1987 if you can, I am his friend, he's in terrible situation and I'm worried about his mental health [CW: mental health and violence]

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  • freddy9853

    It may definitely help him if you two reconnected.

  • Bring back Kirbywithwhip1987 if you can, I am his friend, he's in terrible situation and I'm worried about his mental health [CW: mental health and violence]

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  • He didn't mention anything about trans people, but his sister is extremely LGBT phobic while his mother has the same opinions so that was definitely influenced by them considering that he never had anything about LGBT folks in real life.

  • Bring back Kirbywithwhip1987 if you can, I am his friend, he's in terrible situation and I'm worried about his mental health [CW: mental health and violence]

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  • Maybe by having someone to talk to him who's on the same page politically would help considering that especially in a few past months, it's been rough and his condition worsened under these circumstances. I'm also for him getting any help, but the problem is that he doesn't think he needs it in the first place. Not to mention his family members whom I mentioned who are either the same or far worse.

  • Bring back Kirbywithwhip1987 if you can, I am his friend, he's in terrible situation and I'm worried about his mental health [CW: mental health and violence]

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  • He never mentioned LGBT in one of his rants these past months and I confidently say that whatever opinions he had were definitely influenced by his older sister.

  • Bring back Kirbywithwhip1987 if you can, I am his friend, he's in terrible situation and I'm worried about his mental health [CW: mental health and violence]

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  • He didn't mention it, but from my personal experience with him irl, he never had anything against LGBT, we had one gay classmate during school and he was completely cool with him, unlike his older sister. He's definitely not sexist considering that he's always advocating for gender equality and called males who I quote ''don't have a wife who is dominant'' pussies so.

    He never mentioned LGBT in one of his rants these past months and I confidently say that whatever opinions he had were definitely influenced by his older sister.

  • Bring back Kirbywithwhip1987 if you can, I am his friend, he's in terrible situation and I'm worried about his mental health [CW: mental health and violence]

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  • Especially Twitter, vile stuff is happening there since Elon Musk brought it a couple years back.

  • Bring back Kirbywithwhip1987 if you can, I am his friend, he's in terrible situation and I'm worried about his mental health [CW: mental health and violence]

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  • He definitely deserves a respite from this. And from what I've read in reasons he was banned, I can say that even though he said all the stuff I stated and can be intense, he isn't and was never transphobic nor LGBT phobic in general.

  • Bring back Kirbywithwhip1987 if you can, I am his friend, he's in terrible situation and I'm worried about his mental health [CW: mental health and violence]

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  • Yes, that's him, he was banned few months ago, I think in summer.

    That's great to hear, since New Year it's been really rough for him so if he had someone to talk to and a safe space, he'd definitely feel better. If you can, ask whoever had a beef with him here to bring him.

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    Bring back Kirbywithwhip1987 if you can, I am his friend, he's in terrible situation and I'm worried about his mental health