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DisabledAceSocialist [comrade/them]

@ DisabledAceSocialist @hexbear.net

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  • It is, very. I suggested everything from cards to paypal to crypto to apple pay to google pay, he said he doesn't have any of them and probably can't get to the bank to do a transfer. Why contact me at all then? And why leave a message in the thread saying he's going to help me, and then send private messages saying he doesn't have any payment methods and can't help after all? makes me think he was trying to sabotage my thread for some reason.

  • My bladder is no better. I can't get any sleep. And I think someone on lemmy is teasing me with promises of help that don't come through. A person there answered my mutual aid post to say he wants to help but then keeps making excuses. First he turned down every available option like paypal, anything that takes debit/credit cards, and every other type of payment, saying they don't have paypal, debit/credit cards or the other types of payment in his country. Then he said the only thing he can do is a bank transfer but he needs to go somewhere to do it and he can't get there for weeks, and maybe not at all. Like, why even contact me to offer help if nothing is convenient for him? Also I don't think I'd want to give my bank details to a complete stranger anyway. As if this isn't disappointing enough, he posted his offer of help in the thread, but then sent all of his "can't do this payment method..." messages through DMs, which makes it look to everyone else like I am being helped, when I am not. Which means other people who might have helped won't bother now. It's like he's gone out of his way to stop me getting help from other people while giving no help himself. Someone on lemmy once strung me along like that for weeks and got banned, I'm wondering if this is the same person under an alt account. And I find it hard to believe there's a country where they don't even have credit or debit cards.

    EDIT: Just checked my account and wow! Someone else came through! Now I don't need to worry about it.

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    Rewatching Pride and Prejudice hits differently now.

  • mutual_aid @hexbear.net

    thank you to those who helped.

  • mutual_aid @hexbear.net

    thank you to those who helped.

  • mutual_aid @hexbear.net

    Need more bandages and other post-surgery items - could anyone either send them to me or give me an amazon gift card to order them myself?

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  • mutual_aid @hexbear.net

    Help joining Dignitas. no response at all. Should I give up, I guess it was a long shot.

  • chat @hexbear.net

    I don't think I can cope with these migraines any more.

  • chat @hexbear.net

    I had my final foot surgery today.

  • chat @hexbear.net

    My mental health is now worse than its been in a while.

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    Do you think there is any point to life?

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    What other sub-hexbears would you like to see on this site?

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    I can't afford to be vegan any more.