I've fallen asleep in the bath for maybe 20-30 mins and didn't drown. As a sample pool it isn't large, but it's some first hand experience, and a 100% success rate in not drowning.
This one. It's vulcanised rubber and has a lock on the side. Got as a gift a few years back. Never used to light a joint. I have a mini blowtorch for that.
I don't think you necessarily win by doing what you're doing.
It's also not clear what she did, if it was immoral, if there was some reason why someone had to move. A lot of info missing to know if you should feel aggrieved 2 years later.
I was not sober on that occasion.