TheEmpireStrikesDak

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Cake day: June 15th, 2023

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  • I used to have really strong object empathy. After my diet change, it reduced a lot.

    It would manifest in ways like: if I was shopping and I picked up, say a bag of lemons, only after picking it up, I noticed the bag next to it had lemons with fewer blemishes, I’d want to pick up the other one, but I couldn’t because the one I’d already picked up would feel upset. Or if I stubbed my toe on something I’d get angry only then I’d have to mentally apologise to the object for getting angry at it, because it wasn’t the object’s fault. I also had strong emotional bonds with my comfort objects and it was harder to throw things away, because I’d feel bad for them.

    So it wasn’t a useful skill in any way, but it was part who I was, so I lost another part of what little identity I have.








  • Here in the UK I have never had to file taxes. It’s all done as PAYE. Whatever software your employer uses will work out how much you owe via your tax code each pay packet and it’s auto deducted. It’s only self employed people (maybe other types of earner, I wouldn’t know, I’m just a waged employee) who have to submit their tax forms. It’s weird other countries aren’t doing it this way.