I’ll write something here later probably. In the meantime, hi to whoever’s reading this I hope you get a chance to enjoy something kind today :)

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Cake day: February 3rd, 2025

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  • Seeing that in the morning getting ready for one of my first days of school is one of my earliest memories.

    Grew up anxious seeing fighter jets fly overhead, and around mail. Moviegoing stopped for a while too.

    Felt the political noose tighten with the rampant conservatism but couldn’t articulate it, being so young at the time. Just lots of dull sadness, at least that’s how I remember the early aughts.





  • Many days late to this (lurking the comm bored at work lol) but I had the exact inverse-yet-equal experience.

    Was forced to have my hair long past my hips, clips and bows dug into my scalp and paired with dresses despite my repeated protests and sobbing. Fought to get it to shoulder length as a child, then ventured to chin length with an undercut in my teens.

    Am now euphoric with a swishy/wavy scissor cut and fade. I look in the mirror and wish I could tell twelve-year-old me it gets better, and in a way each day I do.

    It’s sad how much of our identities get stuffed into boxes when we’re young :( grateful that I got to unpack that box as an adult, at least.



  • My SO and I both yell for each other when we’re across the house or in a noisy environment, lol.

    We’re also sometimes brief in our requests because we’ve been together so long that a vague grunt/syllable and/or gesture is all that’s needed to communicate. Doesn’t mean we love each other any less 😆

    TL;DR: You can’t know every relationship from a small window of context ¯\(ツ)/¯ understandable heuristic though