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Azzu

@ Azzu @lemmy.dbzer0.com

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  • All will be revealed

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  • Some people just don't "get" that they're watching a movie.

    Just imagine this not being a movie, the question would be totally warranted, it's useful to try to exchange information about things happening around you. Especially when it's something extreme like this which may require certain behavior of yourself to survive.

    Don't get annoyed at people talking innocently like this during movies, it's mostly automatic. Like others said, just gently remind them that the movie hasn't revealed that yet and to SHUTTT THE FUCK UPPPP try to be quiet until the end.

  • Why would i abbandon KeepassDX?

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  • Ah, for Android I use Keepass2Android which also seems to handle external changes perfectly.

  • Why would i abbandon KeepassDX?

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  • Idk what to tell you, but to me the merging is definitely implemented inside keepass itself, Keepass asks me if I want to merge the external changes and does so well.

  • Why would i abbandon KeepassDX?

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  • Doesn't it only lead to problems if you change the same exact data on both copies to different values? It literally never happened to me, I never had a merge problem. It always just asks me to merge, I say yes, and that's it.

    Oh wait I use KeepassXC not DX, dunno what the difference is

  • "No eating for free allowed! You must only watch it rot on the beach!"

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  • You don't need to rinse the bananas though... You just peel them and throw the peel away, whatever was on the peel does not need to touch anything close to your mouth at all.

  • ideas for deadspace behind fridge

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  • Get some realistic skeletons, put them in there, don't tell anyone about it and just seal it and forget about it.

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  • Go out of your house and ask random people politely if they know where to find artists in your local area.

    Many will probably not know or care, but you'll be surprised how quickly you find humans doing art this way.

  • Adhd+IBS+loneliness

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  • Pretty similar.

    Loneliness is one of the worst pains a human being can feel. It's often been ranked even worse than physical pain. I don't envy you, I know what it's like.

    Unfortunately, the only way to get out of it is through even more pain (probably). You have to force yourself to talk with new people and create deep relationships.

    Even more pain, because you're very likely to be rejected. First of all, deep relationships, in contrast to superficial relationships, have much higher compatibility requirements, idk, you're probably only compatible with maybe 5% of people to form a deep relationship with. But then you probably also have bad social skills right now, so a part goes away through that. And then there's just situationally no path towards a deep relationship with a person, maybe they have too many already, or whatever, so another part of that 5% goes away. So the actual chance to start a deep relationship is very low, which will mean lots of rejection and failure.

    This will be incredibly painful, because you're likely already introverted for reasons that involve negative interactions with people. And you'll likely add more of them to the list unfortunately. But I'm almost sure you'll add many more positive ones to the list as well.

    You can do it like me and get rejected over and over until you feel so worthless and desperate that you rewrite your whole being to please another person, then latch to anyone that gets fooled by you pretending to be what they want, then breaking down because you're living a completely fake life.

    Wait, maybe that's bad advice? Naaah worked for me so must be good right?

    But seriously. I'm mainly saying this because I went through all kinds of mistakes, but doing them was better than not doing anything. And I know for a fact it can be done. I was incredibly lonely, having no friends, in so much emotional pain all the time, but now I feel like the happiest person on Earth, with so many good friends and loving relationships abundant.

    All of this shit you're facing right now can be conquered and overcome. Keep searching for advice like you're doing right now. Humans are not meant to face the world alone, and there are always people willing to help you, you already see it in this thread, and add me to the list. Talking with many other distinct humans about our problems is almost the best thing you can do. We learn through other's experiences almost as much as through our own experiences.

    If you want to know more, I'm here, talk with me. You can do this :)

  • This is me and I hate It.

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  • The only thing that helps me is thinking about objectively, there are much more positive and neutral interactions than there are awkward/negative ones.

    And the only reason I tend to focus on the negative ones is because that's what humans do, avoiding a negative is always "better" than getting something positive, in a survival kind of sense.

    And so I force myself to remember the good interactions again and again, and well, eventually it's become more of a habit than remembering the negative ones.

  • Removed

    Honestly, we're just looking to go in a new direction with different positions.

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  • That's still how it works often. You're just on Lemmy/social media, which is full of terminally online folks and content.

  • The most invasive cookie/tracker option is listed as “Platinum” while the most privacy-respecting option is merely “Silver”

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  • It's just symbolising how much money they make off you with each option. Makes sense to me.

  • It is always the correct choice

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  • How do I bake the best chocolate chip cookies?

  • Is it normal to be really sentimental/upset over a bowl I accidentally smashed? I had it since I was 17 (am 30 now) and my boyfriend was alive back then too.

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  • Why do you care about people doing it in your area? :D

  • Who here finds this?

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  • Me earlier in my life, my gf now :D

  • I'm new to lemmy, came from reddit. What's the lemmy etiquette like? How different is it from reddiqutte?

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  • I was heavily bullied at school, so I understand. Have fun undoing the damage others caused you :D it's an adventure.

  • Hey, autists. What's something that irritates you that absolutely nobody else/a severe minority seems to care about?

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  • Inefficient loading of the dishwasher.

    You put the same things to the same place! So you can grab them as one when unloading, saving time.

    You spread everything out! The more bunched it is, the harder it is for the water jets to hit and clean everything properly.

    You put each thing into the most appropriate place! Big spoons go into the bigger bucket, small spoons in the smaller one, big plates into the row with the wider space between plates, smaller plates into the more narrow rows.

    It's incredible how most people load their dishwashers, they mostly just put stuff in wherever is closest.

  • I highly recommend journalctl-desktop-notification

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  • Yep and I have less time for all these things when I spend the time setting up monitoring.

    Fixing takes the same time either way. But I barely ever have to touch my setup anyway, because usually ot doesn't just break randomly.

  • I highly recommend journalctl-desktop-notification

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  • What do you need quick? I have a Minecraft server, a wiki for random stuff, a shopping list, a calendar sync, photo hosting, a media server and probably some other shit on there.

    I can think of many situations where I'd want those quickly, but need I don't anything.

  • OpenAI Is Having a Mental Health Crisis

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  • Of course the mental health team is bleeding talent, it's probably (initially) consisted of people that actually care about mental health, and they gradually figured out that no matter what they do or try, the technology they work for can only ever be a net negative on mental health. I would also wash my hands off it as fast as possible and go back to actually contributing to positive mental health.

  • I'm new to lemmy, came from reddit. What's the lemmy etiquette like? How different is it from reddiqutte?

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  • Don't do shit like "lemmy etiquette". Just follow human etiquette and be a pleasant human and everything will be fine.

    Also stop worrying so much about "doing anything bad". Sometimes you fuck up, sometimes you upset people, it's no big deal. You're good.