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ArrrborDAY

@ ArrrborDAY @lemmy.dbzer0.com

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  • Summit is the best I've found that includes piefed integration.

  • Top posts on Lemmy have something like 10 billion upvotes, but only 7 comments.

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  • Whatever

  • Top posts on Lemmy have something like 10 billion upvotes, but only 7 comments.

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  • Let us not forget the I can't poop for three days guy. That was just after the reddit api fiasco and helped cement Lemmy's capacity for collective comedy.

  • Every accusation is a confession? More like everything is a confession

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  • But they do have good chocolate though.

  • Donald Trump Says He ‘Doesn’t Care’ About Epstein Files Getting Released

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  • Gaslight, Obstruct, Project

  • Old post, but this toxicity is a reminder of why reddit sucks.

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  • Ding ding ding!

  • He hit him in the cankles

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  • You are a fool or a troll. My money is on fool.

  • He hit him in the cankles

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  • You have it backwards. Narcissism is an actual disability that causes great suffering and social impairments to the people who are in relationships with the narcissist

  • JD Vance hopes his Hindu wife converts to Christianity, sparking debate on interfaith marriage

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  • ¯(ツ)_/¯ You don't have to sell yourself for money, you dont care if its wrong or if is its right

  • Societal Collapse

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  • Healing

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  • Gay men who desired to pass as straight would marry a woman and such women were known as beards. Vance is married to an Indian woman but the rumor is he would like to divorce his wife and marry Erica Kirk. So its a double entendre: Vance is a gay man and he will divorce his 'brown' beard and marry one who is white.

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  • Brutal!

  • The Inconvenience Imp

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  • No easy way but what I'd recommend is to see if you could recognize the need for the transitions, pause and reconcile yourself to needing to pass through them, expending the energy required to do that. See if you can come to an internal consensus about it, and if you can move in that direction then push forward.

  • Dutch people eat like an alleycat in a cartoon

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  • The Inconvenience Imp

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  • Yes, same thing. Its the switching costs that define the energy difficulty, not the task.

  • The Inconvenience Imp

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  • What you're describing is a transition failure, and it's one of the most underappreciated executive function challenges. When you were about to sweep, your brain had already built up complete mental and physical momentum for that specific task sequence. The moment you realized you needed the Swiffer upstairs, everything changed. You had to stop the current task flow, navigate to a different location, retrieve an object, and then return and re-initiate the original task. That's four separate executive function transitions, and each one is a potential derailment point. What looked like "sweep floor" suddenly became "manage a complex multi-step retrieval mission," and your brain's motivation system responded accordingly.

    For future situations like this, one approach that can help is staging the task equipment, for instance keeping the tools you need in the spaces where you'll actually use them, even if that means keeping duplicates. It's all about reducing the number of transitions your brain has to manage. Another strategy is to try to catch yourself in that moment when you realize something is missing and make a conscious choice: either commit to the full retrieval mission as its own separate task, or give yourself permission to pivot to something else entirely without the guilt. Sometimes the kindest thing you can do is acknowledge that the activation energy needed to follow through just got too high and let yourself off the hook so you dont feel so guilty.

  • "So, you're saying a third of the stock market is tied up in seven AI companies that have no way to become profitable and that this is a bubble that's going to burst...?"

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  • Parallel Empires

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  • ChatGPT killed my wife (GPT5 release drama)

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  • Delusional conditions aren't new. Just how they are facilitated changes.