In her* my bad* defense I know it's been down for days, but I clicked a link to a lemmynsfw post this morning and it did open, then I tested it again a while ago and it didn't, so it is weird.
Yeah but isn't that the point of federated services? Join an instance that doesn't federate to the nsfw instances and you don't need to see the content you don't want. Heck I have multiple logins, one for looking at naughty stuff, one for seeing general stuff plus nsfw memes, and a mostly PG login for general use.
I'm not understanding the concept, are there any visual aids to help me?