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Afrikan • androgynous • atheist • prog metal enjoyer • xVx

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  • I feel quite saddened by how few times I've seen actually decent interracial couples who are willing to call out the "weird" kind of interracial couple that gets the most clout online.

    Y'know, when I say "actually decent," I mean the people who just so happen to be of different races but do genuinely love each other. They're not on some weird fetish shit, self-hating, or something like that.

    I have only witnessed just a few of these people who have actually looked at interracial TikTokers who do that slave/slavemaster roleplay shit and said, "Yeah, this shit is fucked."

    Because, honestly, what I'm sensing, and truthfully, this is mostly my vibes, is that most interracial (particularly Black x white) couples are the kind to do slave/slavemaster roleplay, at least most you'll see outwardly express their relationship online.

    Even well-intentioned interracial relationships are often clouded by ignorance and naive "We're in love, so let's act like our racial difference doesn't matter and doesn't require extra labor in our racialized society. Let's just be colorblind!" kind of thinking.

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  • expanded upon the song a bit

    Not planning on it being terribly long... maybe around 4 minutes

    Once I finish this, this means I would've written literally 2 albums worth of music in really just about a year. Feels good!

  • Celebrating the accomplishments of African women, both those on the continent and in the diaspora, this International Women's Day. May revolutionary, decolonial, and womanist praxis ensure them dignity, peace, and liberation.

  • The extremely reductive mentality of Black people who say stuff like, "I had bad experiences with [Black men/Black women], so I'm gonna specifically seek out [white men/white women] because [Black men/Black women] suck!" reminds me of Black conservatives thinking shit like, "Democrats are terrible for Black people, so that must mean Republicans are great for us!"

    Some of us Black people love false dichotomies, don't we?

    I think it is because people often want easy, binary answers to complex systemic problems, even though it is not that simple.

  • Me seeing how Black queer characters in media are basically always in interracial relationships

    Media is bad at depicting Black love, period, but if you're expecting to see a Black x Black queer couple? No chances.

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  • Truthfully, I do not feel confident about my chances of passing this CNA state exam... the course was rather rough for me, especially since I have very poor motor skills (which I think is due to autism). The teacher seemed rather strict, too. Based on how she communicated, it seems like the state exam will be a very harsh process, too, where one must adhere to very stringent particulars or they will immediately fail.

    Honestly, I'm not going in there with good expectations and, unfortunately, I basically already psychologically accepted that I'm not gonna pass.

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