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  • I was at the intersection between mechanical and electrical engineering as well as computer science. And worked in/with (electric) mobility, agriculture, medical/rehabilitation tech., solar energy, energy grid, construction and building tech. As well as some very limited stuff with economics. And I intentionally chose my study courses to be able to work in multiple areas and inter-disciplinary. My latest work is more on the business and management side of things and less technical, though.

    What are you studying and what direction are you hoping to head in?

  • Basically two things: 1. Complicated operations in the time domain like convolutions become simple operations in the frequency domain. 2. It is way easier to handle complex numbers and do analysis with them than with explicit frequencies to the point where some things like stability and robustness can be judged by simple geometry (e.g. are the eigenvalues within the unit circle) or the sign of the imaginary part.

    EDIT: I forgot the most important simplification of operations: A derivative in the time domain, becomes a simple multiplication by s in the frequency domain. So solving Differential Equations of the system's dynamics becomes pretty easy without having to go back into the time domain explicitly.

  • It seems simpler than the Fourier transform, until you realize that the s is a complex number.

    Oh, look at that hornet's nest. I wonder what happens if I poke it

    As someone who worked with system modelling, analysis and control for years... I do think the Laplace transform is easier to work with 🙈🏃‍♂️

  • It's a bit difficult to advise on such a thing without knowing the people and their situations, so I'll keep it as general as possible and mention a few common traps. And it won't be a clear yes or no, because in the end, only you two can make the decision and take responsibility for your own lives.

    When people say, that you change a lot during your 20s (or longer for that matter), it's because of several things, but I'd say the most important are:

    First: Your ability to interpret and regulate emotions (the prefrontal cortex is the last part of the brain to fully develop and continues to do so in your 20s). And with that identifying subconscious emotional wounds and patterns driving your decisions, so you can take appropriate action to change your programming where it isn't helpful. In a relationship context both of your attachment styles are very relevant here.

    Second: Identifying and letting go of values and ideas that have been instilled in you by your vicinity (parents, religion, friends, TV, internet, or society in general) and identifying your own intrinsic values and drivers. Or in other words: Learning who you, yourself, really are. I know it feels like you already know, but that feeling can be deceiving. I for one don't know of a single person who is let's say 35 and would claim that they truly knew themselves at 20, let alone 17.

    So when you say "It has always been my dream to have a family of my own, and that motivated me to propose: why wait if you know what you want?", I hear some alarm bells going off. I would advise you and your fiancée to be very introspective, where this want came from and whether it truly aligns with yourselves and with your current situation, or whether it came from external influences. This is hard to do at your age, even if there is a chance that you are both already mature enough in that regard. Also be very aware, what marriage actually means. To you, to her, to others (e.g. is it a box to tick off, or is it a gate to real fulfillment?) and legally.

    I read in one of the answers that you haven't had a real fight yet. A primary predictor of relationship success is your way of conflict resolution. Now don't go looking for artificial conflict to see how you react. But if you for example were to take things in steps, like moving in together before you get married, these conflicts will arise naturally and you would be able to see how that goes. And even if it goes badly at first, if you are both conscious of it and willing, you can both work on the way you react to and communicate during conflict (and in general) to make it succeed. A small word of caution and something to explore (not assuming it's necessarily the case here): A pattern I see often in couples who "don't have fights", is that at least one of the two is avoiding it. Which can be ok, but not if it means always (consciously or unconsciously) abandoning their own boundaries or values.

    What complicates all of that, is what people now seem to call "new relationship energy". Basically the hormonal cocktail of your system that makes you feel so excited and in love with the other person. This leads people to ignore existing and potential friction and romanticize the idea of a future with the partner. While it is possible to "keep a spark alive" for your whole life, if you do it right, this "energy" for a lack of a better word, will wear off at some point. At which time other factors like communication skills, conflict resolution, the emotional depth of the relationship and value/need/want alignment become even more important.

    I could go on and on (what's your plan for education, jobs, place to live, kids, ...), but I think these are the most relevant parts to make a decision with both eyes open. The journey can be magical as you get to know yourself and the other person together and witness and be part of the growth together. But it will get bumpy and how you two can navigate those bumps will determine where you'll end up. No matter the success, it will be a learning experience. If you are willing to learn and act accordingly.

    Good luck you two. And don't forget to enjoy and experience your lives!

  • In some places in the world, some people seem to get incredibly clumsy when they're near open windows. In others, they have very guilty consciences to the point of killing themselves.

    \s for clarity

  • Can I ask, where you got this? I can't find it on their site and tineye doesn't return any results.

    Just saw the other day, how (mostly older) TikTokers are mocking and blaming SNAP recipients, their working class peers, for the predicament brought onto them. Absolutely disgusting. If this thing is true, I won't say that I'm surprised, but man would this be even more disgusting.

  • Dispicable! Is there a source to this? It seems like they posted it themselves somewhere to brag about their crimes.

  • Indeed, you are correct. This one is talking only about dysfunction. There are others (like this one or that one ) who look at factors like sensitivity/pleasure and can't find an adverse effect, but I didn't mention them, because I can't see how they came to that conclusion and how the initial data was generated. So I can't really say, whether that's a sufficient result. Then, there's studies like this one which asked males about their function and pleasure and compare between then and before circumcision, but again, that's based on self-reports, which vary.

    Phimosis is a congenital issue

    That's the primary type. There's also the secondary type, that can evolve through inflammation for example. Which can be part of the pathology with insufficient hygiene.

  • To preface this: The science seems a bit inconclusive on the exact effects on sexual function or sensitivity. This review paper from 2023 in the Journal "Sexual Medicine Review" suggests that: "Despite the conflicting data reported in articles, the weight of the scientific evidence suggests there is not sufficient data to establish a direct association between male circumcision and sexual dysfunction."

    Unfortunately most papers are paywalled and we'd have to weed through the source papers to judge methodical weaknesses as well, since a lot of it is self-reporting. (I remember reading but can't find a paper right now, where they tested a more objective pressure threshold that could be felt in circumcised and uncircumcised males and found some difference. But I can't remember how significant the difference was.)

    I’ve met a guy who was bullied in high school so bad for it he got a circ as an adult. (...) I don’t want to make him feel like something’s wrong with him his whole life because I was uncomfortable with the idea.

    It's a value judgement. But if you ask me personally, I would not try to avoid potential (not ensured) bullying by doing a lasting medical procedure. Especially considering that like with every such procedure there is a risk of complications (3.84% overall). Much rather I'd try to be there for him, if there is bullying and see to it, that he doesn't feel shame around it.

    Apparently crazy painful recovery.

    That sounds like complications. Generally there's more complications when it's for therapeutic reasons and with higher age.

    I’ve also talked to women who are generally grossed out by uncircumcised men. And I know women who prefer it the other way round. Again, you know your cultural environment better than me, but I don't think you should make a decision like this on subjective opinions of some limited anecdotes. Also: Even if these opinions were objectively prevalent, they can change geographically or over time. And: Think about the kind and quality of a relation that falls apart because of something like that.

    And last but not least, we have a view of a clinician in this topic who highlights the necessity of teaching him good hygiene to avoid phimosis (or general build up of smegma and its risks) and the role you think you can and want to play in his upbringing. There's a lot of people around the world who are uncircumcised and I don't think there is any prevalent medical downside from it. And I would absolutely add as a precaution, that such a procedure, if you chose to do it, should absolutely be made in an appropriate medical facility by qualified doctors.

  • It's crazy how much doctors seem to be lawyers arguing against the insurance companies on behalf of patients, instead of actually being able to treat and care for the patients. Can't imagine, that's why anyone in medicine chose that career and put in the work for it. And it costs society a lot of money as well, to actually educate and train people to become doctors. It's almost like the profit motive shouldn't guide medical care.

  • Yes indeed, that's true. The difference is that now, they don't even want to be part of a future "unity government" like in 2014. The only thing they demand now is that the government body consist of Palestinians. Or in other words: Palestinian self-determination.

  • The first offer from Hamas to let go all the hostages to Israel was on the 09.10.2023. The Israeli government rejected it then and has rejected it ever since: https://www.timesofisrael.com/no-doubt-netanyahu-preventing-hostage-deal-charges-ex-spokesman-of-families-forum/

    In fact, Hamas has stated that they are not interested in any future government in Gaza about a year ago and instead wanted a Palestinian technocratic body to take over. You know what happened? Israel murdered the diplomatic leadership of Hamas in November 2024. And then Israel and the US came out and said, that they had no one to negotiate with. And just a few weeks ago, they tried the same.

    In negotiations early this year with Witkoff and others, Hamas even put this in writing - again with the offer of releasing all the hostages - contingent on a stop of Israeli aggression, the continuation of humanitarian aid and the Israeli troops to withdraw from the strip. That treaty was then changed by the US and Israel in May this year before it was rejected.

    This has been modus operandi from the beginning from the US and Israel. After they had a deal, change it, make it look as if Hamas is rejecting the deal and capitalize on it. In fact, if you go back in history, you'll find the same strategy over and over again, to make it look like "Palestinians rejected peace".

    And last but not least: You are telling people to lay down their weapons, that have been under a brutal siege for over two years, while ignoring the side that put in place the siege and genocidal aggression.

  • That is not entirely true. Italy and Japan for example have just a few weeks ago said, that they are thinking of recognition of a Palestinian state making it contingent on several changes of Hamas.

    But this is neither here or there. If among a whole people, the only organization that is invited does represent only a minority of the people, which can be seen from their low approval, then this meeting is a farce. In the case of the PA, if you read the linked article, they have actively focused on cracking down on anti-occupation groups in Jenin, while Israel has forced around 40000 Palestinians out of their homes during 'Operation Iron Wall' early this year. Instead of opposing, they colluded. This is not the Palestinian people deciding their own fate, but colonial powers imposing their will on them.

  • Leaders from all over the world are making a show of it in honor of the reality-TV-star-US-president. They only invite one Palestinian representative (Abbas) from the PA to their talks. The same PA that controls only parts of the West-Bank and is highly unpopular with the Palestinian populace because they are seen as collaborators with the occupation. The "peace" "deal" came about without involvement of Palestinians. Just like 100 years ago, the fate of Palestine is being decided by colonial powers.

    All the while, militant groups (if they were fighting against Israel they would be rightfully called terrorists) are continuing Israels's tradition of killing journalists in the strip and are fighting Hamas for control.

    Now we don't know which groups these are, but back in June Netanyahu has admitted to backing militant groups in Gaza. Occam's Razor would imply, that these would be among them.

    It's good that the bombings have stopped, that humanitarian aid has started to reach a population under a medieval-style siege for so long, offering a bit of - even if incomplete - respite. But I fear for the population once the show in Cairo is over.

    EDIT: And no one is looking at the horror that is going on in the West-Bank. Nor is anyone including any points in a "deal".

  • That particular Venezuelan woman was one of the leaders of the coup attempt against Chavez in the early 2000s and has been an opposition leader ever since. What makes this complicated is that she welcomed sanctions and coup attempts by the US, including during Trump's first term and she even pleaded to Netanyahu to liberate Venezuela with military force (wasn't able to find a better source since search results are very award focused right now).

    She has close ties to Israel's Likud party, and wants to open the Venezuelan embassy in Jerusalem after Chavez ended diplomatic relations after their assault on Gaza in 2009 and likened Venezuela's struggle to the one of Israel.

    From the will of Alfred Nobel outlining who is to receive the prize:

    and one part to the person who has done the most or best to advance fellowship among nations, the abolition or reduction of standing armies, and the establishment and promotion of peace congresses.

    I'm wondering how the committee is squaring this requirement with her calling for "the use of power" by external forces.

  • Oh! So is that what bloatware is?

  • It's because how it came about and how the process works (which they make up for themselves btw) it needed unanimous consent.

  • That would be my biggest worry as well. Although this isn't specified yet, I assume that they would develop the software for Google/Apple. IIRC the Digitale Gesellschaft, a privacy advocacy group, has mentioned this as feedback about a year ago. I don't know what was done with that though. Other issues were included in the development plan though.

    Also: With how this law is worded, no one is forced to use an eID. You can go the old fashioned way and e.g. go to the traffic office in person.

  • Please don't jump to conclusions. A well implemented eID can even improve privacy compared to the alternative of accessing big parts of the internet by trusting private companies to handle sensitive information like photos of physical IDs.

    There is something in cryptography called Zero Knowledge Proof. With it only minimal information is exchanged and no party can tell anything about the person accessing it, i.e. the website who you are or profiling your ID, nor the verifier or issuer what you're doing.

    Without knowing how the eID will be implemented, you can't just make such blanket statements. Want to know the details? It is open source and you can look up any technical details as well as the software code publicly.