I explain all of that to those unfortunate manipulated victims of capitalism and they call me a slur and say I'm jealous.
You can absolutely blame the people at some point.
If I tell somebody "that guy's an obvious con artist, don't give him money he's going to scam you. Here's examples of him doing exactly that to the last 5 people. Heres my degree showing that i have specifically studied for years to be able to identify scams" And then that person calls me a cuck while handing his money to the scam artist, I'm going to blame the person I correctly and explicitly warned for not listening to me for the 500th time in a row.
And then the anger increases as every single one of the hundreds of people enthusiastically lining up to give the scam artist money has the same conversation with me.
And then a group of 50 of them get together and decide it's my fault because they think I was being condescending as I explained exactly how they are fucking themselves over.
Kind of hard to build a community with the people with giant "fuck your feelings" flags on the side of their house.
That's what I'm saying, maybe you can't blame people for believing a lie but you can absolutely blame people for being literally antisocial and willfully ignorant.
I'm not going to waste my time and put my friends and family at risk by trying to build a community with people who would call them slurs. Especially because they are, fundamentally, antisocial assholes.
You try to build something with them and then as soon as that "thing" has any value they'll attack you and try to take it from you. That's their idea of a smart strong guy, being completely willing to fuck over and lie to other people. It's why trumps president, and he's still got north of 90% approval with people who voted for him, which makes up about 70% of my community.
As soon as you had more food then they deemed appropriate, which is going to be basically any amount, they'll take that using the guns they've been hoarding in the hopes of having an excuse to shoot me. Kinda hard to focus on food and security with those people.
Frankly I'm getting pretty tired of the response to me getting upset at fascist to be "yea but you gotta understand they've enthusisatically brainwashed themselves because somebody told them it was a trans person's fault their boss fired him and that seemed like a good point to them"