This seems very promising. It's a self hosted discord. Basically exactly what I was searching for. It looks like it's a bit buggy for now but I will test it when I get home.
If you look at just the last 24 hours you can see that it went down -99% and then back to normal. So I guess its just a problem with the reporting tool
The only way to stop the bubble from bursting is to inflate it even more. Absolutely sable business plan they got there...