Just toying with the idea here. I am thinking about proposing in the next year and I never expected I would be in this position.

My sister was just proposed to and dude must have spent like 10 grand on the ring. I think she feels like he spent too much. It looks like the friggin thing weighs her whole hand down.

Also do you think it is misogynist to ask the lady’s dad for permission?

  • Vanth@reddthat.com
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    3 days ago

    Nope, I was one specifically not calling you a rapist. You go from head over heels with this ex to facing rape allegations and loss of all friends to being ready to propose in a matter of a month.

    This is me as brutally candid internet stranger who doesn’t care about being your friend - you might want to slow down a tick and get some therapy before you charge into another frantic, unstable, even dangerous relationship. Jumping out of an abusive relationship and immediately into a new relationship is one of the worst things to do, giving yourself no time to heal and get your head on right.

    I’ll block you now if you prefer. It bums me out to see a fellow human fight so hard for shit relationships.

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      3 days ago

      It doesn’t bum you out whatsoever. Youre one of those sick fucks that gets off on making others feel bad.