Work on yourself, be a person that is worth someone else dating. You need a personality, you need hobbies, and you should be as mentally healthy as reasonably possible. Yeah, you should probably try to be physically fit, and yes, being conventionally attractive helps, but it only helps until someone gets to know you. Shitty, toxic people are pretty ugly no matter how conventionally attractive they are.
Also - if you want to meet people, you have to go where the people you want to meet will go. E.g., men aren’t going to meet many women at Warhammer tournaments. Don’t waste your time with dating apps; algorithmic dating is a lie. You can be a 100% match with someone on OKC, and just not be into them, and you can have wildly divergent interests and ideas and still be really into someone else. If you do insist on dating apps, move IRL ASAP, for something low-key, like a 45 minute coffee date.
Work on yourself, be a person that is worth someone else dating. You need a personality, you need hobbies, and you should be as mentally healthy as reasonably possible. Yeah, you should probably try to be physically fit, and yes, being conventionally attractive helps, but it only helps until someone gets to know you. Shitty, toxic people are pretty ugly no matter how conventionally attractive they are.
Also - if you want to meet people, you have to go where the people you want to meet will go. E.g., men aren’t going to meet many women at Warhammer tournaments. Don’t waste your time with dating apps; algorithmic dating is a lie. You can be a 100% match with someone on OKC, and just not be into them, and you can have wildly divergent interests and ideas and still be really into someone else. If you do insist on dating apps, move IRL ASAP, for something low-key, like a 45 minute coffee date.