Title. Obviously youtube is out. Google results have been unhelpful. I tried Pornhub, but no dice. I wanna learn how to shave my twig and berries nice and smooth, because I’m a considerate partner - but I’m tired of trial and error and nicking myself on the nuts.
Why are people talking about partners when this is a own body choice? This is creepy.
Because I don’t really care if I’m shaved or not and I’m willing to put some effort in so my partners will have a better experience?
Well, you did it for your partners experience, but it didn’t need to be. As the choice is yours.
Some people were saying they like it hairy and that you should think about your partner before shaving. I don’t think that’s right.
I said in OP that I’m doing this for my partners benefit. It is reasonable for people to tell me that I should ask my partners their preference if I am doing it for their benefit. Even if I didn’t say that, it is a reasonable suggestion to make, as most people care about their partner’s experience as well as their own.
This really seems like some kind of ethical issue for you, and imo, if you really care that much, you should do some reflection on why it is such a big deal for you, since no one else here gives a shit