sorry to post so much, but now im worried as hell. is it true what someone on reddit said? i’d take it with a grain of salt, but they said i’d be bad at both being a tutor and a barista, both jobs i wanna work at, due to my disability making it slow and that i’m not good enough and that they wouldn’t pay me to help their kids because i don’t know either skill inside and out. however, another person on lemmy said they were being a jerk and that you gain experience by working and watching others.

idk what to believe :( the lemmy user sounds reasonable and sensible, but idk, im worried im gonna be terrible in the working industry because i dont have much of a skillset for anything as im disabled and my memory and reflexes are wack and i cant talk well (i stutter and freeze sometimes) despite being more extroverted, and my disability makes it hard for me to do so many other things.

atp i won’t be able to get a job anywhere because im not fast enough or a good worker…

  • TrackinDaKraken@lemmy.world
    link
    fedilink
    English
    arrow-up
    4
    ·
    27 days ago

    Flattery will get you everywhere. Work to your strength, extroversion. Be kind and sincere, and people will ignore the rest of the issues.

    • clare (she/her)@lemmy.cafeOP
      link
      fedilink
      English
      arrow-up
      4
      arrow-down
      1
      ·
      27 days ago

      thank you so much! i am a people pleaser and a motivated worker, maybe that’ll get me somewhere