Hey all,

I’ve been using a commercial VPN for years on my mobile devices and home PCs. Recently I’ve started to use Tailscale and realized I can easily create a self-hosted VPN on a cheap VPS with unlimited traffic.

But I’m not really sure if that’s what I need. BTW, I’m not doing anything dangerous, no torrents, no illegal stuff, no journalism or whistleblowing, not even looking up abortion clinics. I just hate mass surveillance and I don’t want to be constantly profiled.

Commercial VPN allows to “hide in a crowd” by sharing IP with thousands of other clients. But there are a few issues:

1. Often sites blacklist VPN IPs, so I can’t get in or pass captcha
2. Performance is not very good
3. I have to trust VPN to not keep the logs and not sell data. I used Mullvad and they are considered reliable, but you never know until it’s too late

With self-hosted VPN, I’m losing benefit of “hiding in crowd” as my VPN will be used only by me and maybe a couple of other people. My understanding is that my VPS outgoing traffic is from static server IP. So if I login to Facebook once, the address is associated with me. I’ll also have to trust VPS provider to not analyze my traffic and sell it. On other hand, I’m still protected from my ISP spying, from exposing my real IP address to web sites, from dangers of public WiFi networks. And I might get better performance for about the same price.

What’s your take on VPNs? Tell me if you are using self-hosted VPN and why.