ickplant@lemmy.world to Lemmy Be Wholesome@lemmy.world · 1 年前I'm not crying, you're cryinglemmy.worldimagemessage-square59linkfedilinkarrow-up1826arrow-down127
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minus-squareSonicdemon86@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up9arrow-down1·1 年前Sounds like you need a new therapist as that doesn’t seem like empathy to me.
minus-squareickplant@lemmy.worldOPlinkfedilinkarrow-up2·1 年前I would second this. I heard many stories from clients where I couldn’t relate personally, but the whole point of empathy is to put yourself in that person’s shoes and say “Ok, if I were you in this situation, I’d feel the same way you do.”
minus-squareSonicdemon86@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up4·1 年前Thats true I’ve had too many therapist pity me instead of empathize with me. I’ve gotten enough pity through out my life.
Sounds like you need a new therapist as that doesn’t seem like empathy to me.
I would second this. I heard many stories from clients where I couldn’t relate personally, but the whole point of empathy is to put yourself in that person’s shoes and say “Ok, if I were you in this situation, I’d feel the same way you do.”
Thats true I’ve had too many therapist pity me instead of empathize with me. I’ve gotten enough pity through out my life.
Oh I definitely changed after that