• Otter@lemmy.ca
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    2 days ago

    I know at least one friend that wants to adopt/foster once they’re ready, instead of having biological children.

    The justification was similar to what you said, where they want to pass on their values / legacy, but don’t care about the genetic side

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      2 days ago

      This is the answer. The problem is the huge expense to adopt at least in the US. Money that could make a better life for the child being adopted is taken by the state.

      We need to streamline adoption while still vetting the potential parents as unlikely to be abusive.