I have the njoy pure wand. First time I used it was the best orgasm I ever had, but all sessions after that one were much more vanilla. I tried replicating the posture I used the first time several times but it never happened again. I still don’t know what went wrong after that first time.
To orgasm with the pure wand I insert the toy mid way and move it in circles. I feel it pressing my prostate but my arm ends up sore before achieving orgasm if I don’t stroke my penis. Sometimes I can only orgasm if I tense my sphincter muscles with the toy inside. It’s very frustrating.
Other than changing the technique I was thinking either buying a vibrating curved toy or attaching a sex machine to it to play solo but I don’t know where I’d begin. Open to advice on both scenarios.
For me the important thing to reach prostate orgasm is zero penile stimulation, relaxing a lot in a comfortable position, and rotating the toy, not going back-and forth to stimulate the prostate and nothing else.
It’s generally easier in something like a bathtub where I can rest my legs high and not have to hold them myself.
zero penile stimulation, relaxing a lot in a comfortable position, and rotating the toy
how much time do you need to reach orgasm like that? Don’t you get numb?
rotating means left to right, not in and out? I move it in circles bot left-right and inwards-outwards
Yes. Left to right, not in and out. Since the toy is curved it stimulates the prostate without stimulating the anus which I find makes it easier to feel when I’m stimulating the prostate.
I don’t get numb, but it does take something like 20minutes. I have to go slowly and be super relaxed, almost meditating. It’s not at all like when wanking.
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Penile stimulation would just drown out any feeling in the prostate so I would just orgasm from that and not reach the more “calm” prostate orgasm
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Haven’t achieved that but anal just felt so nice that it helped with the rest. I don’t even feel my prostate that cleanly
I had similar issues and still haven’t been able to go hands free. It’s been awhile since I’ve done anything but I’m hoping to start trying again soon.
I have considered a thrusting machine but space has been the biggest concern for purchasing.
I’ve tried but never achieved prostate orgasm. Reading those that have, I think they’d recommend you focus more on making you and your mood more susceptible to orgasm and less on increasing anal stimulation. Maybe it’d help to pace yourself somehow if your muscles are cramping in the time required to reach O. Explore your expectations first time versus since. Perhaps you were more open and curious that first time, which facilitated orgasm. Now, maybe you’re chasing it more narrow-mindedely and are somehow sabotaging your chances of O. I hope you Njoy your wand again ;)