I was reading a reddit post where a woman was saying that her boyfriend kept asking for anal, and the responses were overwhelming negative about it, saying that they shouldn’t be dating, saying that men like anal because of control/degradation/whatever. I’ve never dated anyone but I’m kind of obsessed with anal, to the point that I’ve fucked myself with anal toys multiple times. Do straight women generally consider this a bad thing? I’m not sure if I could date a woman who didn’t want it, but I’d also be worried about being left with no options if it’s so unpopular.