I have this fantasy and was curious what others’ root desires were. For me personally I think it’s the change in perspective figuratively and literally. Seeing how they react to the different feel and touch. Simply viewing it as a personal live porn with your favorite performer. I appreciate the replies. Please be of legal age when responding. Thank you

  • cincythrowaway45@fedinsfw.appEnglish
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    3 months ago

    I think mine comes from the hedonist in me and being open to whatever makes me or her feel good. Plus I love it when she cums. But it’s not often I have a short refactoring period so I would be open to sharing her so someone else can fill the gap and hopefully she can prep me so I can go again after he is done. But the wife isn’t the sexual fiend that I am so I have to be the one to push her to use anything other than her vibrator.

  • ayawnymouse@fedinsfw.appEnglish
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    3 months ago

    I like the concept of swinging, orgies, etc. It’s a fantasy to be able to have sex with all kinds of other women than my partner, but that’s selfishness and it’s not going to happen IRL - both of us are pretty prone to jealousy, fear of losing the other, so it’s not going to be an open relationship of any kind. Still, I enjoy the porn portrayals of those situations.

    • deezcashews@fedinsfw.appEnglish
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      3 months ago

      Pretty much this. I know a lot of people into all of this and it never ends well for someone. It takes a certain type of person to pull it off and most people just aren’t wired that way, or they get into it to try and save an already failing relationship, but it usually just ends up like they’re shopping around for a new partner before ditching the old one.

      But I’m in the same boat as you. I love the idea of it but I don’t think I could do it.

      • shartgargle@lemmy.zipEnglish
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        2 months ago

        Been there in the trying to save the relationship. It turned out we were better as fuck buddies than in a relationship. We tried it and realized it really didn’t do much. Like we didn’t have the love and connection to make it intense enough to matter. That’s when we were like, ok let’s break up because we’re simply not that into each other, but the sex is great, so let’s keep that part. And we remained as that until she found a serious relationship.