The lesson here is that your assumption about how the system works is wrong.
That means can mean 1 important thing :
- it was not explained clearly enough for you during your onboarding.
Consequently I suggest you recall when you started using Lemmy, how you heard about it, how you then understood how it work and thus potentially update the documentation (or whatever you relied on then) accordingly so that others don't make the same mistake.
I didn't say it was the only motivation, but even if I did, can you please give examples and address the question I did ask?