There's some pretty subjective opinions on what constitutes "hateful". Some people are just comfortable in their little echo space and refuse to have their world view challenged, and when anyone says something that doesn't align with their particular take on reality they resort to calling people something-phobic. It really goes both ways.
Like, I get the aesthetics of putting that chocolate sauce on the sides but bitch, you know I'm gonna be scraping that shit off the sides and get a bunch of paper in my mouf, just put it on the banana
How did you solve long term visa?