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tiredofsametab

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Reddit - Beehaw until I decided I didn't like older versions of Lemmy (though it seems most things I didn't like are better now) - kbin.social (died) - kbin.run (died) - fedia.

Japan-based backend software dev and small-scale farmer.

  • Japan: Hundreds get car driving licences suspended for drink cycling

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  • Cyclists here in Japan flaunt all the rules and ride like maniacs (illegally in most cases) on the sidewalks (and also illegally with earphones and staring at their phones). Pedestrians have absolute right-of-way and the cyclist is at fault for hitting them. Add to this generally high density and bad spacial awareness and it's bad without drunks. Absolutely keep people from drinking off the cycles.

  • Maybe I've just got the wrong history book

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  • Violence is not a biological need. If you keep making the same mistake, an apology isn't the answer since clearly it means nothing. An actual apology with actual effort to not repeat that mistake is important

  • There are first person shooters and third person shooters, but what about second person shooters?

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  • I follow some game dev and programming YouTube channels. I remember seeing someone make one and it being weird (and basically unplayable IMO), but I can't recall which channel it was

  • Maybe I've just got the wrong history book

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  • Exactly. If we keep doing it, clearly it is not the answer but rather a postponement

  • People who don't have much friends: Do you think you would've have a better social life if the internet didn't exist?

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  • I have lots of acquaintances and people with whom I'm friendly but few real friends... And I think that's fine. I've never felt the need to spend tons of time around others or have tons of friends.

    The getting off the internet thing is good. Usergroups and meetups can be a great place if you need socialization.

  • People who don't have much friends: Do you think you would've have a better social life if the internet didn't exist?

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  • I'm old enough to have not had a ton of friends before the internet.

  • Do you buy real Christmas trees or put up artificial ones?

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  • Option 3: we don't buy any trees.

  • Japan launches first bus service with lie-flat seats

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  • I saw this and I don't know if I could do 10 hours in that thing. All for it existing for the people who can! (I'll be on the train instead)

  • Ancient boat unearthed off the coast of Egypt believed to be a ‘pleasure barge’ fit for a king

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  • My sleep-deprived brain read "ancient bot" and I thought I must be dreaming. Really neat find!

  • Oh you got me

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  • No one must find out how many times I far-finger the same number and new and inventive ways

  • Keep these Stupid American Trucks out of Europe

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  • No one needs it and it's inconvenient. Some people with money import foreign cars (particularly around Roppongi/Akasaka/Meguro in Tokyo)

  • Keep these Stupid American Trucks out of Europe

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  • As a farmer in Japan, not all tractors are even road legal here. It would also take me hours on a tractor to go get anything of size. That said, I also don't need or want american-sized trucks for that. We have kei trucks.

  • Keep these Stupid American Trucks out of Europe

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  • Also out of Japan as well, please. We definitely don't need these, especially in pedestrian- and cyclist-heavy areas. (I have seen hummers trying to drive some streets in Tokyo and it's insane).

  • Fears grow inside military over illegal orders after Hegseth authorized follow-up boat strike

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  • Throw the book at everyone in the entire chain that planned and executed this.

  • How progressives are taking over swing states – and driving fear into Democratic elites

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  • This was indeed me for the last 20ish years. STAR voting or similar now, plz (and an end to gerrymandering)

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    Fireworks were invented in 200 BC, and firearms were invented in the 10th century: that means it took us 1,200 years to realize we could point them at people.

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  • No, but rockets were a thing

  • Beware of the cat

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  • I've been in Japan a decade and don't recall ever seeing one of these. It says ネコ飛出し注意 cat jumping out caution.

  • A cool feature/mechanic you want to see in games again

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    • an absence of quick-time events (I hate those things in cut-scenes, parry systems, etc.)
    • a mode that allows the player to destroy the environment, NPCs, etc. including, when on, making the game unable to be completed potentially. I think having that be a toggle will still allow people to relive older RPGs where you could easily ruin your life without knowing for hours.
    • Off-the-wall weapons. I think Blood 2 had a few and even halflife 2
    • Counting beyond 2, speaking of the above.
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    TIL: Young Men Ages 18–29 are Turning Right-Wing and Women of the Same Age Turning Left-Wing

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  • I had a lot of issues growing up. Neurodivergent kid in rural Ohio in the '80s, lots of conservative people around, abusive people in my family making stuff hard for much of my young childhood, and a number of other things. I wanted the same thing anyone joining a gang wants, really. Acceptance, feeling like I belong, and feeling like I was fighting something or for something better.

    I came from a place where I, very much without knowing it, was very entitled and privileged. I was kept away from others a lot as a kid (lived with my grandparents for a bit and wasn't allowed to play with the other neighbors (who were in my class) because they were not white. Other perspectives were few and far between when and where I grew up. There are some other reasons that there were huge gaps in my critical thinking and bullshit detection (partly due to not questioning people in power and getting heavily punished when I did). I got taken advantage of a lot when I first got out on my own and had to basically do a lot of lessons that most kids/teens learned as an adult with much more dire consequences.

    I felt like I was working hard and that others' failures were because they didn't work hard enough (and that I didn't work hard enough when I was failing). In reality, a lot of people attribute way too much of their success to their own skill not luck and circumstance. At the same time I was thinking other people were lazy, I was also helped by some of my family through some financial hard times more than once (though I was briefly homeless another time). I came to realize, as I met more and varied people, that some of the hardest workers I knew were getting fucked over. Two jobs, caring deeply about their families, and barely able to tread water to support themselves and those that relied on them.

    Contradictions between people claiming to be christians and anything that christ would have done. People thinking they were holy and great for holding some coat drive and stuff, but any tax dollars for a safety net were just terrible and those people were just going to spend it on drugs. People who kept pulling up every bit of safety because "fuck you, I've got mine", for lack of a better term was just more and more visible when I looked at what was going on. Also being out on my own and working when 9/11 happened and the crazy amounts of hate and racism that followed that. I slowly started actually seeing all of these things, losing that entitlement, not othering people, and realizing things for what they were. I traveled to other places, saw other ways of life. The early internet and chatting people from around the world via IRC and the like also played a role in that.

    Living as a minority in another country (I moved to Japan in my early 30s), getting randomly stopped and searched, struggling to find housing, and other things also cemented many of the other things I had already been learning. I am a deeply empathetic person, but I had always assumed that everyone was acting in good faith in a lot of situations and that merit would see me treated "properly". That's not the reality. The reality is that people are messy and flawed, that people are mostly good but often wary. This can manifest as racism in the guise of "protecting our culture and way of life" where those others getting stopped and searched (often in front of their communities, peers, clients, etc. who have no idea what is going on and assume the worst) was just a mild inconvenience. That experience in particular showed me exactly what white, male privilege in the US was. I could never see it clearly since I always had it.

    This is a very long and rambling response. I guess the TL;DR would be seeing my own entitlement and privilege, realizing that people in power and authority often don't get there through merit and/or hard work alone (if at all), and generally getting more experience and seeing and experiencing inequity.