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throwawaysalami

@ throwawaysalami @lemm.ee

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  • I got more than I bargained for, how do I fix? TW: suicide

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  • I mean, you gotta make bread somehow... This is the only way I know how. I show interest in the person and see if they like me back. If they don't, I leave it at that. I will concur it might be difficult for the other party to distinguish my intentions.

    But I will be honest with her. I will encourage her to seek help and tell her how I feel about us.

  • How do people develop feelings for someone?

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  • I mean, I'll take what I can get (short term, long term). As I said I have never had any sort of relationship to speak of so I wouldn't really know. But casual sex would be best for me as things are now.

  • How do people develop feelings for someone?

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  • Sorta, I don't really care that much for the relationship part. I mean, if I like the girl and she wants to make it official I'll play ball, ya know.

  • How do people develop feelings for someone?

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  • but it’s a place to start building a framework for understanding.

    It sure is! Thank you, this is honestly very helpful and intuitive! They way I got confused by the last comment was because I was like: "But I'm already talking friendly with them, that's like the one thing I'm good at."

  • How do people develop feelings for someone?

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  • but then what is your actual challenge here?

    I don't know, that's a good question. How to convey that to the other person, I guess?

  • How do people develop feelings for someone?

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  • Okay, clearly you're at the end of your rope here. And I thank you for sticking around for as long as you could.

  • How do people develop feelings for someone?

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  • What about if you don't want anything too serious?

  • How do people develop feelings for someone?

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  • Flirting is just friendly chatting.

    Wait, so how is that different with friends??

  • How do people develop feelings for someone?

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  • Do you have to be friends first before you flirt? (I feel like a damn toddler or alien, asking these questions. 😅)

  • How do people develop feelings for someone?

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  • Ask out your crushes instead of trying to force a crush on someone you’re not attracted to.

    So you just, ask them out? Do you need to behave any differently as you would with a friend?

  • How do people develop feelings for someone?

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  • Have you ever experienced sexual attraction?

    Yeah, like a ton actually. Sorry I forgot to mention I do in fact develop feelings for people.

    Edit: I added it to the description now

  • How do people develop feelings for someone?

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  • Okay I probably should've mentioned this. I most certainly do and can develop feelings for people but I just don't know how to (for lack of a better word) make others see me for more than just a friend.

    Edit: Okay it's edited into the description now.

  • No Stupid Questions @lemmy.world
    throwawaysalami @lemm.ee

    How do people develop feelings for someone?

  • Autism @lemmy.world
    throwawaysalami @lemm.ee

    This happens to me way more often than it should.

  • I'm going to a dance party for the first time. I'm scared of becoming a fly on the wall. What can/should I do if this happens? Edit: It was a ton of fun. Thank you all for submitting your thoughts

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  • Thank you for your advice! The dance party was a ton of fun and I danced with lots of different people!

    Just remember that standing around and not talking to anyone is as much a choice as going up to someone and asking for a dance.

    This one in particular really stuck with me. And I was surprised how much truth there was to this line ^^

  • Asklemmy @lemmy.ml
    throwawaysalami @lemm.ee

    I'm going to a dance party for the first time. I'm scared of becoming a fly on the wall. What can/should I do if this happens? Edit: It was a ton of fun. Thank you all for submitting your thoughts