This is the down side to hosting videos on someone else's computer. It's Google's computers, so it's Google's rules. And those rules mean self censoring or being demonetized. If you really don't like the rules, you can always start your own video sharing site, with blackjack and hookers. I know I've seen a few of the channels I watch mentioning just that sort of thing. I personally subscribed to Nebula years ago, because I wanted to support that sort of content. And I've considered joining other sites, but haven't been willing to put the money into it yet. If you want a better site, you have to put your money where your mouth is.
Ultimately, if you don't like Google's rules, stop supporting them by using Youtube. If enough people are willing to leave the platform that the ad revenue dries up, Google will kill that too.
You'd think that a competent technology company, with their own AI would be able to figure out a way to spoof Cloudflare's checks. I'd still think that.