Skunk [any]

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  • Skunk [any]@lemmy.ziptoshitposts@piefed.world📡📡📡
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    16 小时前

    Why are we so obsessed with making sure everybody understands that bringing a friend when you meet an online stranger is wrong? And no one talking about the guys mean spirited attempt at “teaching her a lesson” instead of just… saying what the fuck his problem is?


  • Well I’m not on board with the passive aggressive stuff.

    Then what is your point? That she made a faux-pas on the first date? Ok. Whatever. Just break it off and go home if it’s that big a deal. Why is it so important for you all that I know that you’re not supposed to bring a friend when meeting an online stranger for the first time?

    I’m not even gonna touch your consent analogy. I’m sorry but that’s a mess. What we are talking about is (at worst) like asking for coffee and someone bringing tea. Not like getting tricked into a date by someone pretending it’s a job interview, the power dynamics alone…


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    16 小时前

    Well I’m not, I’m happily married thank god. Also empathy is exactly what I’m advocating for. I don’t know why the girl decided to bring a friend. Maybe she wanted someone to check the vibes with her first? Maybe she just thought it would be fun and didn’t know that “you aren’t supposed to do that”? And the advice that other guy gives based is to just passive aggressively “teach her a lesson”?? Fuck that.