In my experience I've learned it seems safer to back in because then I can see better when exiting, which is a time of limited visibility, in many cases, already, and that problem is exacerbated when attempting it in reverse.
It's why I don't use discord. I popped back in due to it being used for a project I'm interested in but I'll be gone again once it's over. Web version > desktop app any day.
"We" are not good with it. But if you're American you might be, yeah.