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mortemtyrannis

@ mortemtyrannis @lemmy.ml

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  • Coleoptera 4 ever

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  • Yeah I don’t know about the veracity of the statement ‘all cancer is toxin exposure’ you got a source to back that claim up?

  • i need an rv, and lab equipment, and a helper

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  • They don’t want their lemmy post demonetised.

  • Jimmy Kimmel has a suggestion.

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  • Remove weir bias now!!!!

    All water retention systems matter!!!

  • What happened? This crash closed Interstate 64 in Henrico County for hours

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  • I’d guess the hydraulic malfunctioned.

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    Dumb fish

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  • Communism is when you get free lunch.

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    "What is a woman?"

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  • I respectfully disagree.

    To me the abolition of gender would be amazingly freeing.

    It wouldn’t matter if I chose to wear a dress to work or a suit.

    It wouldn’t matter if I chose the pink shirt over the blue shirt.

    It wouldn’t matter if I wore makeup and nail polish and be a construction worker.

    Yes, I could do all of those things right now, nothing stops me rather than the feeling of being judged by others, hence the ‘external validation’ of gender.

    None of those things above are inherently feminine or masculine but a lot of us are taught that they are and judge others on those ‘rules’.

    For me, it is hard to fathom how someone who experiences so much suffering from gender dysphoria can then reenforce that same gender expression in society. To me, I’d just rather kids growing up who wear whatever clothes and behave how ever they want to (within reason).

    If all people didn’t perceive certain clothes, behaviours and ideas as feminine or masculine then people would just be people.

    I won’t hope to imagine your own internal thoughts but I am curious, if you weren’t taught what a ‘woman’ is and what a ‘man’ is do you still think you would have experienced gender dysmorphia?

    Also, as far as I know body dysmorphia is different to gender dysmorphia. I.e. I can identify as a man but still want to keep my vagina.

    I’m also not claiming you wouldn’t have still had body dysmorphia even if gender was abolished.

  • A conservative billionaire had some things to say

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  • Google the definition of a meme. Memes are pretty much anything.

    It literally definitionally is a meme.

  • Bumble

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  • Best you can hope for on bumble is a ‘hey’ from the woman.

    That’s all they ever need to say, because again, it’s stacked heavily in favour of women so when they send 100 ‘hey 👋🏼’ messages they get 95 replies that have to carry the entire conversation. It sucks but that’s the reality.

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    "What is a woman?"

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  • Without external validation I’m not sure we can have gender.

    Don’t get me wrong here btw, I’m not conservative on this issue, I’m a gender abolitionist.

  • Bumble

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  • PSA: If you’re a guy on a dating site and you reply with just “hey” or something similar to a lady then you’ve fucked up.

    You get one shot at a semi-witty reply that may get her to smile before your reply is buried under 100 other guys also vying for her attention.

    Just quickly read her profile and make some kind of riff off of it with an open ended question.

    “Hey blahblah I saw you liked The Office, I’m more of a fan of working from home myself.

    Also, why’s everyone seem to be looking for Jim? Who’s that guy?”

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    "What is a woman?"

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  • I’d quibble slightly and argue that there’s a strong case that gender is also performative so if society generally deems you a woman, you’re also a woman.

  • A conservative billionaire had some things to say

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  • Yeah it actually is.

    Who are you? The meme police?

  • Lemmy devs are considering making all votes public - have your say

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  • Yes make it public.

    No real reason not to.

  • Team earth is best

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  • Suck it you Venusian losers!

  • The Siren – John William Waterhouse (1900)

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  • Great painting.

    Excellent expressions on both subjects, the siren looks like a predator and the sailor has this face of fearful realisation.

  • [Serious] What do you think Disney's Recess characters are up to now, as adults?

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    • TJ = Real estate Agent
    • Gretchen = IT
    • Vince = High School Coach
    • Gus = Accountant
    • Spinelli = graphic Designer
    • Mikey = Shop assistant/aspiring playwright

  • Ah sweet!

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  • Hate to break it to you, you’ve been drinking water made from something’s shit for as long as you’ve been alive.

  • Deutsche Herrschaft

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  • Krankenwagen

  • I've heard it clears up again after the first wave of divorces

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  • Ahhh they are inextricably linked to a previous partner and you’re expected to become a parental figure if the relationship goes anywhere serious.

    Some people (like me) really don’t want an instant family.

    I take my hat off to those who don’t have kids but date parents; they are better people than I.