My primary concern in all this is safety. It is not safe to choke your parter even if it is agreed upon. It causes permanent damage although how much damage I suppose is debatable.
tbh I don't care if people engage in dangerous actions as long as it's done with informed consent.
There are major issues with people being pressured into putting up with stuff they wouldn't otberwise but that's a far bigger issue you don't solve by banning media.
Glad you can recognize you changed the topic.
Discussing issues of consent is valuable and important. Doing so because two adult's consentual acts make you uncomfortable is unhelpful and actively harmful because you're conflating consentual and non-consentual actions.