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jaschen

@ jaschen @lemm.ee

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  • Why can't we go back to small phones?

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  • Same reason I have a Samsung Fold. 75% of the time it's a small phone for small regular tasks. When consuming media, I open up.

  • Disney Introduces Christian Character After Ditching Transgender Story

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  • Doesn't really matters to me.....

  • Japan ‘on verge of no longer functioning’ after birth rate plummets to record new low

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  • Yes absolutely. The Japanese has a heavy influence in Taiwan culture. They ruled Taiwan for 50 years. My grandparents only spoke Japanese and Taiwanese when I was growing up here.

    That is why there is so much love for the Japanese people. Our cultures are pretty aligned.

    What we different is how we view kids in society. In Taiwan, when my wife was visably pregnant, people from all walks of life would give up their seat for her. Even before she was visably pregnant, the government gives you a ribbon to wear and people will let you go first on an elevator and congratulate you.

    The government has designated parking spots(marked in pink lines) specifically for pregnant and anyone with kids 6 and under. All larger malls are required to have a clean breastfeeding/pumping room with some malls going the extra mile and having free childcare while you pump.

    The people in Taiwan view children as everyone children and everyone has an obligation to bare that burden.

    While there are major upsides, the downsides is that people have opinions on how to parent your kids with some parenting for you.

    I was in Kaohsiung at a beach and my 3 year old son was taking a stick and hitting it against rocks and the sand. A bunch of grandma's felt it was too unsafe for my son to be walking around with a stick in his hand and took it out of my kid's hands and told me that my kid could lose an eye. I know the gesture comes from a good place, but man. Mind your own business.

  • Japan ‘on verge of no longer functioning’ after birth rate plummets to record new low

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  • They are courteous and very respectful. It's built into the culture and even their language. One simple sentence like hello, how are you have multiple ways of saying it depending on who you're addressing. Addressing incorrectly is very disrespectful. So the culture overly respectful.

  • Japan ‘on verge of no longer functioning’ after birth rate plummets to record new low

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  • Taiwanese family living in Taiwan and frequent Japan prior to having kids and after having kids.

    Most people are quick to point out the gruesome work culture, but honestly, that is just a small part of the total issue.

    1- Japanese people culturally hate outsiders. So their immigration system is setup to almost never give a foreigner citizenship.

    2- Japanese people culturally have a mindset that if you pop one out, it's you and only you that share that burden. That means that if you're on a train and struggling with a crying toddler that is tired of standing, nobody and I mean nobody will let you have their seat. Half the patrons will turn up their volume on their headset and the other half with mean mug/glare at you for annoying them. You wanna know the worst part. This mindset transcends to the kid's grandparents. That's right. The grandparents will not lift a finger to help you.

    Edit: I also want to add that the burden is not even on the father, outside of the finances. The father does not need to help with any baby duties. I have met many Japanese men that has kids that has never even changed a diaper. Why the fuck would a Japanese woman want to have kids?

    3- The government is not making it easy to help the families. Do you have a sleeping kid in a stroller? Well, you better hold the kid if you're using mass transit. Elevators are an afterthought. So once you get off a train, you either have to walk an extreme distance to get to an elevator or in some instances there isn't even an elevator at all. In some rare occasion there is a designated elevator for strollers and wheel chair access, it's jammed packed with people who is able-bodied and can take the escalator, all of which won't exit the elevator to let people with wheel chairs or strollers in.

    I went to Osaka Universal studios and ask to rent a stroller. The guy didn't speak English at all. We eventually used my phone to translate and he asked me my kids age. I said 5. He said, is today his birthday? I said no. He turned 5 a few weeks ago. He then poceeds to deny me from renting a stroller. I reasoned with him telling him my kid is having major jet lag and needs a place to sleep right now. He told me to just go back to the hotel to sleep because he wasn't going to rent a stroller to me.

    I love Japan and the Japanese people, but honestly they all hate kids.

  • nets

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  • Fair.

  • nets

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  • Checked the username, can confirm. Very annoying.

  • Tesla Cybertrucks are gathering dust, even with $6,000 discount

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  • They are promoting that Nazi car in Taiwan. Where the roads don't fit. The parking lots where all the chargers are don't fit.

    Stupid marketing.

  • I will never not laugh at this!

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  • That's fucked up. Did someone throw a stick in front of him? Someone report him to me so I can shake his hand.

  • It's my first life. First daying every day till the end of my days.

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  • I found myself a good boss that cared about people and asked him to be my mentor. So now I give zero shits at my work and I keep getting promoted because I don't care anymore.

    Everyone needs a good mentor. Either a parent or a boss or someone you inspire to be.

  • Bluesky

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  • It just depends on the instance you're on. The tankie instances, it's gone.

  • Curious why they tried to send a file from a windows machine via IMessage

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  • This guy fucks

  • A relatable situation

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  • You might have adhd

  • Luigi Mangione illegally searched during arrest in health insurance CEO killing, lawyer says

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  • Wow fantastic reference.

  • You don't choose your parents

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  • Yo, no doubt that capitalism is exploitative. But it's a STRETCH to say that it breeds racism.

  • You don't choose your parents

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  • The fuck you talking about? Older Chinese people are the MOST racist people I know. This has nothing to do with Capitalism. It is the lack of culture. If you have a homogeneous culture, this breeds racism and nationalism/tribalism. It has nothing to do with Capitalism.

  • NSFW

    rtbrtrtnty

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  • Your comment gave me a gag reflex from a video I watched 20+ years ago.

  • From our new album

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  • Stone Temple Pilots was one of those bands for me.

  • Friends who have babies

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  • Well, not receive can do it.