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hoshikarakitaridia

@ hoshikarakitaridia @lemmy.world

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  • Is it just me, or...

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  • I agree some questions feel forced, even rhetorical. I have a hard time believing it's AI. I think it's either a bunch of alt accounts from one guy who needs help winning arguments or a bunch of people roaming around in very weird social circles.

    But yeah, there's days Lemmy feels like a breath fresh air, and then it feels like someone is playing shenanigans in multiple communities for a few hours.

  • Nintendo Suing U.S. Government Over Tariffs

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  • The point might be injunctions and judicial record, they might know they're not getting their money back.

  • All Taylor Swift songs except for one are boring

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  • I honestly have no opinion on her. There were a few times I liked her music but I am incredibly indifferent to it. Not annoyed, not bored, not excited, just increasingly reactionless.

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    How effectively will the AI of the future be able to replace real sexual partners or friends?

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  • That's an extremely specific scenario and I would bet money on it not happening quite as you describe.

    What if people become more AI literate and generally understand it's uses and misuses better? What if the dating and social connection landscape changes and some other platform makes things way easier or changes the way we connect? What if people become so lonely they revert back to prostitution?

    There's a million more scenarios and no one really knows what the future looks like, so I think it's very likely that your scenario does not come true at all.

  • do you think lemmy will ever have millions of users and niche topics or subs like reddit?

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  • Then choose one at random. Or make a register page that lets you search for one using tags.

    I genuinely don't think this is hard, it just takes someone putting the time in.

  • Not Controversial

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  • Don't get me wrong, Hitler and the nazis and especially all the bystanders who ignored were all awful, but literally nothing good comes from some foreign countries meddling in other countries politics.

    Imagine France decided trump was evil and they would get rid of him and suddenly Macron becomes the leader of the US. Yeah people will be happy that trump is gone, but imagine what happens next: people are mad because they are essentially controlled by a foreign power, their political system just gave weight to some other guy and now the nazis will rise up again because they feel like they need to "liberate" their nation from "the chains of foreign forces" and "make the country strong again". And this is only national reactions. No one knows what France constitutes as "a dictator". Maybe Canada is next? Now they have to build defenses against hostile actions like this one. And because France did it, maybe Spain will copycat, and maybe they might pick Portugal just because they would love to indirectly control it. And now you have to justify why that's different than Russia trying to "purge a country of Nazis", you know, stuff they are literally using right now to justify their war of aggression.

    What I'm trying to say is any countries business is their own. Otherwise every foreign invasion is suddenly up to interpretation and that's just a bad ground rule for geopolitics.

  • So... last time I told my mom to get out of the room when I was with the therapist/psychitrist (or whatever... idk their roles) and now my mom is insisting to be in the room with me for the future...

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  • Yeah she is overbearing it sounds like. The "perfect" thing would be to explain to her that there is topics you need to be alone with your therapist for. Of course it sounds like you don't have the energy to do that, and your mom also might not understand.

    What I'm trying to say that whole thing is not normal and both your mom and your therapist should be more professional and understanding of this.

    I'm sorry you have to deal with all of this, but it will definitely get better. And of course all the things you feel make total sense given the situation you are finding yourself in.

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    Bloody backpack of Iranian girl killed in US-Israeli attack on Iranian elementary school

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  • I'm not saying this image is bad or people should not know about the conflict, I'm just saying if I scrolled over this on my break and my boss saw this, he would be traumatized and I might gave to have a talk with him about it, and I think that makes it NSFW.

    I literally said this picture is good, because it sets it in perspective but for me it's one step below showing dead people/ corpses and I hope we can all agree those are definitely NSFW.

  • "I am especially proud to be the first President in decades who has started no new wars" - Donald J. Trump

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  • For a very special orange boy

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    Bloody backpack of Iranian girl killed in US-Israeli attack on Iranian elementary school

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  • Good picture but could you mark it as NSFW?

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    New Jersey Jewish community exposed for exploiting non-Jews

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  • Why all of this hate on Jews?

    I can tell you from experience punching down on minorities dangerous and unhelpful, that experience being German history.

  • What's with neurotypicals? Why do they seem to dislike autistic people this much?

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  • It's because most neueotypicals don't know how to deal with the quirks of neurodiverse people.

    And because our society is set up in a way where we have to put in most of the work to bridge that gap, this just results in a lot of extra baggage for us to deal with, in addition to functioning in the first place.

    The only thing I can tell you is that it's not your fault, and most people don't intentionally do it, they just don't know how to handle it, and it's usually subconscious.

    You're kind of stuck with putting in more effort, but remember, we as people with autism are used to bridging gaps, so we have excellent training and usually a huge amount of patience. Make that your strength. Be persistent and observe, and then you'll realize what people like and don't like about you, and that's how you can make yourself more fun to be around for neueotypicals.

    I always think that all of the people with autism have limitations in a lot of regards, but our superpower is that we have way better control over ourselves and if we face tough things, we are so much more intentional and experienced, and that's what makes is awesome - but in a different way.

  • Tried masking. What did I do wrong?

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  • There's no script for social interactions. Most people do masking subconsciously because there's so many things that neueotypicals look for, e.g. body language, facial expressions, micro movements, and how all of them fit together.

    You'd need to be superhuman to emulate all of that consciously.

    I'm so sorry you have to actively play a part to do this. Usually I always had like 1 friend I can depend on and nowadays when I wanna join friend groups, I still depend on that one friend and then just hang out for a while, before actually interacting.

    Turns out, if you just observe and mirror the bigger things, like laughing at their jokes, or looking engaged when they tell stories or similar, you slowly build up trust and connection.

    Just remember, it takes time to join a social circle and there's an immense number of setbacks, that you kind of just have to deal with.

  • Is spreading.

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  • "Looking Glass does not support audio routing. The preferred solution is to pass through QEMU’s audio to your host’s audio system."

    That eliminates Ableton ofc (because that pushes you out of the vm for audio and then you have to deal with additional jank and you're back to dealing with your Linux distro for better or for worse.

    Premiere pro that could work though of course for audio you're also back to square one.

  • (XMPP Setup Guide) Discord Was Never the End Game - TonyBTW

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  • Ok so when you're talking about xmpp as a discord alternative, basically movim is kind of what people should be paying attention to.

    I'll def check that out. I am also passively observing progress on stoat.

  • Administrative task management

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  • And no trigger discipline at all on that sudo. That's criminal negligence. Very Baldwin-inspired.

  • Administrative task management

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  • Is this some kind of rm -rf / hostage situation?

  • (XMPP Setup Guide) Discord Was Never the End Game - TonyBTW

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  • Now this is a question: how far can you get with xmpp? Could you build an interface on top of it to look exactly like discord with all of it's functions? Or does something like that already exist?

    My first instinct with these older protocols is that there's no way they could support 10 people in a voice call with concurrent camera streams and 3 screen captures. I'm genuinely curious how far xmpp goes.

  • Is spreading.

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  • I'm kind of in the same boat though. Compatibility still breaks lots of things people don't think about.

    • music production (that's me)
    • video editing & pp
    • architecture software & planning software
    • legally compliant software for taxes, etc.
    • various GIS software
    • very specific closed source hardware

    There's quite a few people I can confidently recommend Linux to, but there's also a bunch I can't.

    I tried setting up my DAW setup with external plugins and even with huge limitations I couldn't get it to work. I tried 8 times, with 5 different configurations. This is not feasible. I had to switch back, and I hate that I had to do it, but I'm working with artists and costumers, and things need to work fast and stable.