not gonna read all of that, so might ask questions, that are burried there somewhere, bear with me.
why can't you block asklemmy and this guy and say fuck it?he seems to be an asshole and what i saw from him got downvoted a lot. so why bother?
my granny used to say: "the angrier you get, they become happier"
edit: and please stop puting complete sentenses into links, hard to see how many links there are, sometimes. it's better to make it one word only. or just post the link in clear text. saves people not only from getting rickrolled.
my stupid brain was like "read the fucking nmanuafm?"