I didn't know about dokploy tbh, thanks. It seems to have more refurbished UI. If I knew this first I would have given it a try. The reason why I'm using coolify right now is that I saw it on Hackernews. I didn't do much research because it was already opensource and self-hosted ( which are the most important features I require for a software).
Since Coolify is working fine on my environment for now, I'm not going to get rid of it immediately, but it's always a good thing to have many other alternatives so that we can cope with enshittification (aka Plex)
It maybe off topic but I've been using coolify for my homelab setup and it's been working great. It manages all the docker compose files for you and you can edit and deploy them, all from the nice webui it comes with. You can even access the terminal without leaving your browser. Drawback is that you well not get "hardlinking everything" type of flexibility.