It seemed pretty clear to me:
- Nate Bargatze did a bit the whole night that donations to charity would be keyed to the amount that award recipients took for their acceptance speeches.
- The bit fell flat and wasn't funny, but the bit continued the whole night, and unfortunately took attention away from the content of the acceptance speeches.
- In terms of actual time of broadcast, acceptance speeches are a tiny percentage of the overall production time, so anyone who wants to save time should've found it in all the filler that was actually scripted into the show.
- Nate Bargatze almost certainly wrote the bit and put it in, so the blame should lay with him.
Of course. But this particular bit, woven throughout the entire production, was his. And unfortunately for him, there wasn't an "offramp" for abandoning it when it wasn't working. Which is something he talks about when describing his comedy writing and development process. It's a rare miss, of the type that he has explicitly talked about wanting to avoid, in a show with a large audience.
The rest of your comment simply confirms that you're not really the audience for these types of awards shows, which is fine, but at the same time if you're not into these types of shows and don't like acceptance speeches, your tastes/preferences should probably carry less weight compared to the people who actually look forward to these things.