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  • I get Scandinavian DNA, but where does Spanish DNA come from?

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  • I think it's funny that dog DNA tests are more accurate than for humans. That is because someone defined a breed and then started tracking that for years. Since these breeders have almost complete control over the mating behaviour of their dogs we can define a breed. Humans are not like that. We move and mate everywhere we want

  • Married people, do you have a wedding ring? Do you always wear it?

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  • I have a ring and I always wear it unless there is a specific activity I shouldn't. Certain messy or risky tasks I will take it off. I sometimes take it off while chilling in bed but put it back on when I sleep.

  • What are your views on homeschooling?

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  • Homeschooling feels like an act of hubris. The idea that you and your partner know the same or more about education than trainer professionals is crazy. Each teacher has at least a college degree, most have a master's and they all go through yearly refreshers on how to best teach on top of their on the job experience. How can one (or two) people do more than that?

    On top of that your child will be exposed in their home life to things you know and think are important to understand. School can show them things you know you don't know as well as things you don't know you don't know. I want my daughter to know things I don't know and to expand her worldview beyond mine. Homeschooling limits their knowledge that what I know. (Which is usually the point to shelter a child from scary ideas which is not doing them any favors).

    Can homeschooling be okay? Sometimes but not often enough and most people who do it aren't prepared or qualified to do it

  • I think he might be gay but I'm not sure

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  • Looks like both of you have multiple relationships. Whether he is gay or bi is a moot point because this would be the same problem regardless of Alex's gender since you feel he is taking some time from Avery.

    Are you and Avery primary partners or are you non hierarchical? It seems like Avery and Alex have lots of new relationship energy. Did they just start dating? Is this your first new relationship for Avery?

    The solution is you boring poly answer. A discussion about relationships, expectations and feelings. If it really doesn't feel right don't fall into the poly trap of not breaking up because you don't have to

  • Is a relationship that has no long-term future a waste of time?

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  • I think there's is a lot of value in a short term relationship especially if it ends well without lot of resentment or drama. That being said the best short term have a defined end date. For something like this it's more nebulous communication will be important. At some point both of you will need to find someone that would work long term. You might both agree that you can casually date other people while dating

    The younger you are and the newer this relationship the more time you have. If you are young there's more time in your life to find a different partner and you don't know what you want and same with him. If you're relationship is new there is plenty of time for something else to break you up. There are other deal breakers out there

  • Farming for self sustainance

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  • Anyone who says they are self sufficient is lying to themselves. Communities of people can be but we all need each other

  • Farming for self sustainance

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  • Just requested it from the library. Our composting in place garden has been producing a ton over three last year. We have lots of berries now and have a lot of functional plants in our urban yard. It's mostly teas, medicinals and some cut flowers but we can get lots of use out of it. When you really try there is a lot of space to grow what you need even in a small space if you prioritize. I can't feed myself but good supplemental for high value things

  • Farming for self sustainance

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  • If you are interested I would recommend reading some books on permaculture. My first book was Gaias Garden which I loved. It talks about how to piecemeal increase your own sustainability starting in your own yard. It's a great first step if this is what you want to do. Overall no one person / family / farm can stand all alone we are all interconnected

  • NSFW

    There's another NSFW instance

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  • A porn instance is the perfect single topic instance. We need more of them

  • Hank the Hound Dog

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  • Then he is a really good hound. The louder the better

  • Hank the Hound Dog

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  • Looks like a good boy. How loud is he?

  • Without getting in a fight. Why is it called coming out of the closest? Where did it begin? I mean why not a garagde or a bedroom or something? How did it become a reference to homosexuals?

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  • Here is a Time article about it.

    In my head the closet part involves someone jumping out of bed and hiding in the nearest place to hide. A closet.

  • Google's Pixel 10a arrives on March 5 for $499 with specs and design of yesteryear

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  • I'm not going to buy one because I have a Pixel 9a but it's good they are making one

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    Dbzero has Defederated from Feddit.org following its Governance post about the later's "Zionist Bar Problem"

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  • Agreed. A bunch of general purpose instances with slight variations on ideology that are pretty much identical.

  • Google's Pixel 10a arrives on March 5 for $499 with specs and design of yesteryear

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  • I love a budget phone. At this point the lower end specs are good enough for me. I want all makers to have a low spec budget phone

  • Google's Pixel 10a arrives on March 5 for $499 with specs and design of yesteryear

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  • Love the low price. I've been buying the pixel A out of pocket for years. Hate having to pay things off installments. Just give me a cheap phone

  • Google's Pixel 10a arrives on March 5 for $499 with specs and design of yesteryear

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  • I've been using the A series since pixel 2. I want something new and cheap. I don't trust used battery life

  • What tourist destinations do you think are NOT overrated?

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  • If you can hike part of the superior hiking trail do it. It's stunning and super nice

  • [QUESTION] What is the best way to learn to cook and improve?

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  • I am going to give you two book recommendations that I think should be done in this order: Salt, Fat, Acid, Heat and The Wok

    Salt, Fat, Acid, Heat is great because it talks and about what is needed for all recipes (it's title). It talks about food science and theory so you can understand techniques and understand what each thing in a recipe does. It does have generic recipes that you can modify as well "lessons" to walk through what you learned.

    The Wok is similar but just about using a Wok. I love the wide variety of things you can make with the wok. It also gives you some sidebars about how to shop of ingredients, sauces and how to chop for the recipes. It also talks techniques with then example recipes. Read both and try them out