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@ drbollocks @lemmy.blahaj.zone

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im proud of who i am 🏳️‍🌈

monolingual loser, hope to learn more languages 💔

she/her/he/him - lesbian genderfluid

i love my gf ❤️

  • why do some straight people deny their loved ones’ homosexuality? (keyword: SOME)

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  • the character it’s based off of is male, it’s based on someone mishearing a name

  • why do some straight people deny their loved ones’ homosexuality? (keyword: SOME)

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  • nah, just upset me a lil

  • why do some straight people deny their loved ones’ homosexuality? (keyword: SOME)

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  • oh yeah same!!

  • why do some straight people deny their loved ones’ homosexuality? (keyword: SOME)

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  • he’s blocked haha!

  • why do some straight people deny their loved ones’ homosexuality? (keyword: SOME)

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  • 😂

  • why do some straight people deny their loved ones’ homosexuality? (keyword: SOME)

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  • ahhh, tysm

  • would dating my ex friend be worth it, do you think he could love me and would calm down if i said yes or am i just thinking this out of sadness?

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  • he broke up before he said all this. he was clearly into me and hitting on me before they broke up though, and the rest still stands. tysm

  • why do some straight people deny their loved ones’ homosexuality? (keyword: SOME)

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  • he also told me “i love what females smell like, especially during sex. i bet you smell nice” or something like that :,)

  • my (18f) sister (13f) is convinced i don’t care about her, how do i convince her i do?

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  • oh, thanks for that, i edited it :)

  • would dating my ex friend be worth it, do you think he could love me and would calm down if i said yes or am i just thinking this out of sadness?

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  • thanks so much!

  • would dating my ex friend be worth it, do you think he could love me and would calm down if i said yes or am i just thinking this out of sadness?

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  • thanks so much 🫂 gave me the ick a little that he barely acknowledged that i liked girls. he only cared about if i liked guys or had a bf, he only got upset when i liked a guy.

    it’s almost as if he was trying to act like i was straight, which was a bit insulting to me. if i had a gf/liked a girl, he would act like that meant i was just single and not attracted to anyone at all.

  • would dating my ex friend be worth it, do you think he could love me and would calm down if i said yes or am i just thinking this out of sadness?

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  • that makes sense, you’re right. i reworded it, i realized how wrong it sounded

  • would dating my ex friend be worth it, do you think he could love me and would calm down if i said yes or am i just thinking this out of sadness?

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  • thanks so much, i blocked him because he wouldn’t stop harassing me. he told me to ditch my bf for him and didn’t care that i didn’t have feelings for him. in fact, he didn’t care much about my personality or identity so long as i was his girlfriend. that’s all he saw, nothing else outside of that.

    and even though he wanted me to “take my time”, he was convinced i was his future wife despite only having known me for about a week all because i was pretty and nice to him.

    he also didn’t actually care whether or not i liked him, he just wanted me to say yes regardless. i feel like since that was his first time, he’d have sex with me, force me into doing it if i said no, and then break up and badmouth me.

  • would dating my ex friend be worth it, do you think he could love me and would calm down if i said yes or am i just thinking this out of sadness?

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  • i didn’t know all the details, he just said that she showed signs of schizophrenia and acted weird. i didn’t know her and didn’t know their relationship, but i know he did leave her because she had hallucinations, paranoia, thought objects were real (like dolls), and apparently age regressed a lot. he said she got too clingy and “weird” and even “crazy” for his liking. (which ik that word is stigmatizing in that context because in high school, we were told not to call ppl who showed signs of mental illness crazy)

  • what’s the difference of behaviors between a person with npd and just an asshole?

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  • ohh, thanks!

  • i still wonder if there’s a possibility that he cares about me…

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  • true :)

  • what’s the difference of behaviors between a person with npd and just an asshole?

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  • it’s a slur? let me change the title then

  • i still wonder if there’s a possibility that he cares about me…

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  • thank you so much :) im trying to move on, he seems like he was a bad bf

  • (sorry if this doesn’t fit) i don’t speak russian, so today i learned “lunch” and “dinner” apparently use the same word (although dinner also has ужин)

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  • ahhh, that makes a lot of sense. (learning Polish), for some reason i thought obiad was just lunch and kolacja was dinner but this makes more sense