We could have better conversations if we stopped the hyperboles. Constant crypto ads? You can turn off ever seeing their wallet and other stuff in settings.
I wouldn’t call them moving in and after a while realizing they are not contributing an early signal.
You know what would be? Talking about it up front and coming to an agreement. Whether it be financial or otherwise.
And this has nothing to do with a relationship being transactional. In fact it’s the opposite because then the relationship will not be one person providing for two people and the other person providing a relationship in return.
If you try to solve everything you won’t solve anything. Life is just too complex.
There aren’t only solvable or unsolvable problems. You also have to consider constraints like time, money, physical and mental health and whatever else you can think of. Which becomes a murky soup of tasks.
Sometimes it’s just best to say “it is what it is” for your own mental health. I’m sure you’ve done it, you just haven’t thought or said those specific words. Otherwise you’d not be posting on lemmy, you’d be out there solving problems.
Ok, so you’ve got it all figured out huh? You earn a lot of money, are in really good shape, eat healthy self prepared food, have a good relationship with everyone around you, have everything in your home organized and tidy, have hobbies that fulfill you… and you still have enough time to post on lemmy.
All by the power of never giving in to “it is what it is” but instead carefully dissecting and solving everything in your waking life.
Props my man, what shall we call you? Captain Solveitall? Supersolver? Something else?
Strange that all their controllers work wired and wireless but they have specific ones for Xbox. Is that a license/driver issue?