The problem with this dicks fine persons arguement is your choosing sides either way. Its unfortunate but true. And do you want to stand on the side of the person who didn't cheat, or the one who did
Still ain't an airport. Don't have to announce your departure.
My argument has been the same since the beginning as literally the first comment. Sticking with dad is also choosing the new chick in the mom's eyes. What dad did is deplorable and OP staying with shows their morals and lack of them
? It was literally point number 3 you made. How people make mistakes and it happens
The OP asked if they should have their mother's back even though it means not having their best friend
Yes. Their best friend stooped to one of the lowest places they can go and now they want to stand by them. If they do, theyre are bad by association and deserve their mother eventually not talking to them either.
Edit: if he's such a best friend, he'll make amends with her even if they choose their mother right now.
Im not saying go no contact forever. I've said previously they should have their mother's back until he can genuinely say sorry and start the healing process
Right now everyone here is advocating for shitting on the mother in her most vulnerable state. Because the dad is fun
Im not saying people have to be perfect. Cheating with your assistant is faaaar from perfect though.
Get a divorce and move on. To show your kid the right way in life. Dude failed that though. Showed his child that family is nothing. And the child is now supposed to just continue being family with him cause he's fun
They should be having thier mother's back, as they didn't go an do one of the lowest things you can do in a marriage
Says the man posting from lemmynsfw. Things in your second marriage must be going super well
If you held marriage to any standard, a man breaking his vows to sleep WITH HIS ASSISTANT should be pretty deplorable. And recommended an atleast young adult to just brush past that like it's just another mistake is insane.
Yeah, just look the other way that he figuratively slapped your mom across the face. Atleast he's cool though
Jaywalking. I'll be your partner in jaywalking cause it was made up by the motor industry to pass on pedestrians getting hit onto the pedestrian instead of the driver
To bad you'll never get to experience it though, being your a whale and all
Not from Kansas. Well traveled and have seen a bunch of relationships. I've seen people get divorced and I've seen infidelity.
I have immeasurably more respect for those that get divorced no matter how hard it is. Breaking the vow through being a cheater is about as low as you can go.
Sorry you don't hold marriage to sanctity it should be
Says the one drawing conclusions to make the dad seem better
"Maybe she was actually a piece of shit, you never know"
Congrats on blaming the victim!